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🌱 Something new from Brave Journeys…I've been working away in the background creating a different way to access therapeu...
06/09/2026

🌱 Something new from Brave Journeys…

I've been working away in the background creating a different way to access therapeutic support.
Brave Guided Journeys gives you access to a growing library of programmes, activities and therapeutic resources that you can work through in your own time, at your own pace.
Membership starts from ÂŁ17.99 per month, with options to add monthly live group support or even a private 30-minute session with me.
Therapy and wellbeing support doesn't always have to look like sitting in a therapy room once a week.
Sometimes it's about having the right tools, the right support and somewhere to begin.
Have a wee look and see if it might be right for you. đź’š
👇 Find out more and start your Brave Journey here:
Https://pages.quenza.com/p/bravejourneys

05/09/2026

I have lost two friends this past week.

We were not close by any means but both had been part of my life for a long time, and one as respected colleague.

Their passing has brought grief, of course, along with a real awareness of how fragile life is—how quickly the days move, and how little any of us knows about how much time remains.

Maybe moments like this should make us live a little more deliberately: to be patient when we can, grateful for what we have, and a bit more considerate with one another. Maybe to check in (big regret).
To look out for the people we love. To say the words that matter while there is still time to say them.

We spend so much of our lives rushing, worrying, holding on to old hurts, and waiting for the right moment. But the right moment is often simply the one we are in. I have been plagued lately with the knowledge that we are only passing through, and none of us is promised a tomorrow. Being a dad to Ella who is so young makes this a hard and sobering thought.

So be present. Love your people openly. Let them know they matter. And maybe show yourself the same……

Peace and sweet dreams to those who have passed.

You were here. You mattered. Your lives touched mine in various ways—and you will not be forgotten.
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02/09/2026

Maybe you’ve become so good at carrying everyone else that nobody thinks to ask whether it’s getting heavy.

And perhaps you’ve become so used to saying “I’m fine” that you’re not even sure what you’d say if somebody really asked.

You don’t need to reach breaking point to deserve support.

Today’s Brave Question:

When was the last time somebody asked how you were… and you actually told them?

If this made you think of someone, send it to them. Maybe they need somebody to ask today.

I watched Disney’s Luca this afternoon as a welcome movie afternoon by the fire given I am experiencing severe man flu…....
29/08/2026

I watched Disney’s Luca this afternoon as a welcome movie afternoon by the fire given I am experiencing severe man flu…..
and maybe it’s the therapist in me, but I saw something much bigger than a story about two sea monsters.

I saw a story about difference!

About hiding parts of yourself because you’re scared of what people might think if they saw the real you.

About trying to fit into a world that has already decided what “normal” is supposed to look like.

And about what can happen when someone finally sees ALL of you… and stays.

For me, Luca is a beautiful little reminder of diversity and acceptance.

Whether that difference is neurodiversity, sexuality, gender, culture, disability, personality… or simply being someone who has always felt a little different from everyone else.

Maybe the answer isn’t learning how to fit in better. And I think it’s really easy to suggest that we ignore those who don’t accept us, because ignoring us seldom an option…

Maybe it’s finding the people who don’t ask you to hide.

Because acceptance isn’t saying:

“I like you despite your differences.”

It’s saying:

“I see your differences! And you’re still welcome here with me!”

We could probably all do with a little more of that. đź’™

27/08/2026

Sometimes we look for the big fix. The one thing that will suddenly make everything feel better.

But life doesn’t always work like that.

Sometimes it’s the little stitches that hold us together. A kind word. A message from someone. A good cup of coffee. A laugh you weren’t expecting. Five minutes of peace. Someone simply asking, “Are you okay?” Or even a beautiful sunset over lossie beach!!

Individually, they might not seem like much. But stitch by stitch, they help put us back together.

Look out for your little stitches today. They’re often easier to miss than the big things. 💙

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There’s a mental health crisis happening in our farming communities, and far too much of it is happening quietly.Across ...
20/08/2026

There’s a mental health crisis happening in our farming communities, and far too much of it is happening quietly.

Across the North East and beyond, farmers and farming families carry pressures that many of us will never fully see.

Long hours. Financial worries. Isolation. Unpredictable weather. Rising costs. The responsibility of keeping a farm going, often after generations of family have done exactly the same.

And through all of it, there can be this expectation to just get on with it….. “aye I’m fine!”

But behind the farm gates are people.

People who get overwhelmed. People who struggle with anxiety and depression. People who lie awake worrying about money, animals, crops and what tomorrow will bring. People who can reach breaking point while everyone around them thinks they are managing!!

And their families feel it too. Partners, children, parents and wider farming communities can all carry the weight when someone they love is struggling.

We need to get better at asking the farming community how they are — not just how the farm is doing.

We need to make it normal for someone to say, “I’m struggling, it’s not been easy, and I don’t know how to fix it”

And we need to make sure that when they do, there is someone there to listen.

Mental health support doesn’t always need to begin in a therapy room. Sometimes it starts over a cup of tea, leaning against a gate, sitting in the cab of a tractor or with one person simply saying:

“How are you really doing?”

If you know someone in farming, check in.

And if you’re the farmer who’s struggling quietly, please know you don’t have to carry everything on your own.

Behind every farm is a person.
Behind that person is often a family.
And every one of them matters.

Graham
Brave Journeys.
Supporting people and families across the North East and beyond. If you need help please reach out for a confidential and caring conversation.

19/08/2026

Brave Question #15

Yesterday we talked about the stories we carry about ourselves.

The ones that tell us we’re not good enough.

Not successful enough.

Not attractive enough.

Not clever enough.

Not doing enough.

Today I want to ask you something different.

What would change if you believed you were enough already?

Really think about it.

Would you still chase the approval of people who don’t see your worth?

Would you keep saying yes when you desperately want to say no?

Would you keep comparing your life to someone else’s?

Would you feel the need to prove yourself?

Or would you finally give yourself permission to just… be?

Being enough doesn’t mean you don’t grow.

It doesn’t mean you stop having goals.

It means you stop believing you have to become someone else before you’re worthy of love, peace or acceptance.

You don’t have to earn your worth.

You don’t have to prove it.

You are enough today.

The question is…

Do you believe it?

💙 You don’t need to answer me.

Just answer yourself.

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