Tantalizing Tarot

Tantalizing Tarot I offer Tarot readings online, and face to face. I can build you a Relationship Compatibility chart, and an Astrological profile. I love Tarot.

I’m happy to answer questions regards everything I offer. Let me help you love it too.

My third book,  Confessions to a Tarot Reader 2 (the dark side) is done.  I need to proof read and sort out the chapter ...
11/05/2026

My third book, Confessions to a Tarot Reader 2 (the dark side) is done. I need to proof read and sort out the chapter order. I'm working on the books cover too, and I've a couple of interesting ideas regarding this. Watch this space...

Does your house sit easy with you?    A moot point.  There's a theory,  difficult to prove,  but also difficult to dispr...
03/05/2026

Does your house sit easy with you? A moot point. There's a theory, difficult to prove, but also difficult to disprove too, that the atmosphere of a house or home is dependent on human interaction. In a nutshell, if the owners of a house have a happy disposition, the house itself will be conducive to that theme. Alternatively, if the house owners are prone to argue, are negative and base, the house will absorb that negativity, (the stone tape theory) and the very atmosphere of the house will become gloomy. Me, I have to see the stigmata. I have to see the proof. And mark my words, I have over the years, seen the proof dozens of times... No two houses feel the same, and this can vary considerably. As I always say to doubting Thomas's, imagine two of your friends. There's nothing to choose between them. You appreciate them equally and they equally appreciate you in the same manner. So far so good. Now here's the rub. You go to visit friend number one, and their home feels inviting. You go in and you can easily slip your shoes off and blissfully recline into their lovely 4 seater settee and await that first cup of coffee. The atmosphere is lovely. Then you go to visit friend number 2. You go in, and for some reason or other, things feel a bit more formal. You sit more upright, the house doesn't feel as warm and inviting. Atmospheres. We all experience them, but if you don't think about such things, you don't realise this occurs often. There are more things in Heaven and Earth Horatio, than are dreamt of in your philosophy.And atmospheres are just one of them... Oh, and for the doubting Thomas's and the Philistines amongst you, it's not just the house that makes the nicest coffee ! Trust me. Next time you're out and about looking for a comfy settee and a blissful coffee, think about what I've said, and see what you think?You might just surprise yourself.

Dreams.  Something different for a change.  Martin Luther King said,  "I had a dream" (so did Abba, but his dream was mo...
10/04/2026

Dreams. Something different for a change. Martin Luther King said, "I had a dream" (so did Abba, but his dream was more profound.) Not long after he said it, he nipped out onto a balcony for a quick cigarette, and an assassins bullet sent him to dream land permanently. I'm minded of that, as I had a dream last night and I'm now sitting just 5 yards away from Julie's balcony with a nice cup of breakfast tea. Fortunately I'm a non smoker...
But I digress. I had a dream.
I was in Casablanca or Zanzibar in what appeared to be the mid world war years. Life was good. I was the darling of the socialites, the well heeled, the rich, gay and carefree.
I was invited to all the best parties and social functions. Of course, I was out of my league (slightly) but no one minded. I teased the women and sprinkled gossip and scandal in their ears and I made the men laugh. I was very much in demand and life was good. How odd. Most of my dreams recently involve me being lost and alone as darkness falls. It was all like,
On a morning from a Bogart movie
In a country where they turn back time
You go strolling through the crowd like Peter Lorre
Contemplating a crime
(Year of the Cat. Al Stewart)
I can't think of a single thing that might have prompted the dream, and I would have loved to have said (in the dream. ) "Here's looking at you kid." Oh well.
Dreams. Bring them 0n...

I’m about to do a group Tarot reading for six,  20 somethings, young women.  Nothing unusual in that.  But wait,  maybe ...
19/02/2026

I’m about to do a group Tarot reading for six, 20 somethings, young women. Nothing unusual in that. But wait, maybe there is…
Caroline, the girl who booked the group reading, and at who’s house the readings will take place, rang me again the other evening. She asked for a favour. OK. Hit me with it?
The favour turned out to be very unusual. Something I’d never been asked before. Hell, I don’t even know what Baby oil Twister is ! (apparently it’s a game by Asbro, with a slight difference) Look it up. Kidding. Just kidding. No. She asked me could I remove 3 cards from the Tarot deck before I arrived. Excuse me? Which 3 cards pray tell?
Death
The Tower
The Hanged Man.
I was bemused. Dumbfounded actually. Why on earth would I do that? The Tarot deck consists of 78 cards of which 22 are the Major Arcana and 56 are the Minor Arcana. The Major Acana are the big boys (they have more sway and meaning) and the Minor Arcana who are the foot soldiers. All important in their own right, but the big boys carry more weight. To remove 3 Major Arcana is unheard of. It’s like a one-armed window cleaner. How can he carry his bucket and sponge at the same time? It’s just not done.
So, in my bewilderment, I asked why she might want me to do that, to remove 3 essential cards? “Oh.” She says blithely, “My girlfriends can’t wait to have a Tarot reading, but collectively they are afraid that Death, The Tower, The Hanged Man might come up in their respective readings, and it might scare them. Is that OK? Is it OK? It’s about as OK as putting mustard sauce on apple pie ! It’s not OK. Far from it.
I had to explain at length that the 3 cards in question don’t spell death, doom and gloom all by themselves. Tarot is to help and enlighten the client. Not to terrify them. Tarot quite often gives you options, gives you help and advice when the going gets tough, and that includes Death, The Tower, The Hanged Man. The 3 cards are staying in the pack thank you…
And so it will be on the night. I had a vision. It’s OK. Joan of Arc said that too, and look what happened to her. My vision was I would have to entertain six, 20 somethings, young women, all sat there with their fingers crossed and wearing adult pampers……..
I’ll keep you informed.

No two Tarot readings are the same.  No two Tarot readers are the same either.  I say no two Tarot readings are the same...
27/01/2026

No two Tarot readings are the same. No two Tarot readers are the same either. I say no two Tarot readings are the same, but along those lines, some questions can be the same, to my great annoyance. Lord give me strength.
This question normally comes from the lips of women in their late teens and early twenties. You know it’s coming within minutes of engaging with said young woman. It’s often the first question they ask, and it’s almost said like their life, their whole future depends on the answer. I swear to God that in these instances, my Tarot deck wants to run and hide. Hell, I want to run and hide with them, but I must be brave. I must face my Nemesis. I must ask the Tarot in all seriousness, the question put to the cards. (the children cry so with hunger)
It goes thus,
‘Can you tell me please? Will I win millions on the National Lottery anytime soon?’ You can feel their sincerity, their hope. It fills the air. It’s tangible.
This is where I usually call, Time Out. I smile. I keep cool. I don’t scream in despair. No. I ask the client, ‘Do you know the actual odds on winning the lottery?’ I do, and I’ve never gambled. I looked it up because I was curious.
The odds of winning the UK National Lottery are 45 million to 1. (that’s winning the big prize individually.) I’ll say it again, 45 million to 1. That says to me, If I buy 45 million tickets, my ticket is guaranteed to win, once. That’s the scientifically sanctioned odds. Now ask yourself, If you can afford 45 million tickets, What on earth are you buying lottery tickets for? But for people like me (poor as a church mouse) why not spend a few pounds, a few dollars a week. You never know? Well I do. I know this, the odds are 45 million to 1. I’m not a gambler. I don’t buy lottery tickets. I’d rather use the money to go see a show, go see a football match.
Yes, I bite my lip and ask the Tarot, Will this lady win the Tarot anytime soon? The Tarot always (this far) says, Not a hope in Hell. And I’m left to butter up, Not a hope in Hell. I’m not charging enough. And on occasions, it gets worse. Really. Honest Indian. Some girls follow up their first question with a second question. It invariably goes like this, ‘OK no lottery win then. My second question is, ‘Will I meet a rich, handsome man, and will we fall in love?’ By this stage, I need to lie down for a while in a darkened room. Urgently. Did you notice ‘Rich’ came before ‘Handsome?’ It always does! And surprise surprise, The Tarot (this far) says, The computer says no.
Maybe it’s because I’m a Londoner. No, that’s a song. Maybe is because I’m a Capricorn. That’s better. Capricorns see the world in black and white. We are very practical. We are analytical. We work out the odds. To ask the Tarot such questions are futile, surely? Lottery wins. Rich guys. Why waste the best years of your life walking round in hope of a 45 million to 1 miracle? I know a girl (Stateside) who was working on tables in the deep south. She was 19 and had dropped out of school. One day she woke up and told herself she could do better. And so she did. She now works on Wall Street NY, in charge of 150 employees and she’s a very successful businesswoman. Now what were the odds on that? A damn site better than buying a lottery ticket.
That’s my girl……

Is it better to have loved and lost,  than never having loved at all?I’d have said yes with absolute conviction.  Of cou...
20/12/2025

Is it better to have loved and lost, than never having loved at all?

I’d have said yes with absolute conviction. Of course it is. Love is a many splendid thing. It makes the world go round. Let’s hear it for love…
I’ve been lucky in love, and then some. Gambling? I couldn’t back a winner in a one-horse race. Seriously. I don’t gamble. I know better. But love, bring it on. But is it better to have loved and lost? What do I know? I was unsure. Losing in love must hurt. It must tear at the heartstrings. Is the abject pain of losing in love worth it? I have a friend. We grew up together. Only child, an accident if truth be known, and his parents showed him precious little love during his childhood. So love, was his quest. At 17, he met a girl of the same age. They began dating and my friend thought he’d died and gone to Heaven. It was everything he ever dreamed of. What did he do? Well three weeks into the relationship, his craving for love was so much, he went down on one knee and proposed to her ! The young girl was shocked to be honest. She explained to him that they were both 17 and had been dating for 3 weeks (21 days) Quite rightly, she refused his offer of marriage and the very next day she told him it was over. My friend was devastated. His whole world caved in upon him. Even back then, I had an interest in Tarot. I was only a kid really, but I wasn’t bad at all in simple 3 card readings, and my friend knew this. In his despair, he wanted to know if he would love again? Wanted to know if heartbreak would be his destiny? I can’t remember the exact cards back then, but it wasn’t good. Even without the reading, my friend swore to himself that no one would ever hurt him again. I am a rock. I am an island. I kid you not. He moved out of his parents’ house at once and went to live on his own. He thew himself into his work and ultimately became a top government scientist.
Did my friend ever find love. Well, no. But only because he never again looked for love. Love for him, lasted just 21 days and in the end, never did him any favours. Nobody would ever hurt him again. Ever. A sad tale.

Is it better to have loved and lost, than never having loved at all?
Give it some thought…

Do Tarot readings weigh heavily on my shoulders on occasions?  Do bears poo in the woods?  Of course they do.  Cut me an...
07/12/2025

Do Tarot readings weigh heavily on my shoulders on occasions? Do bears poo in the woods? Of course they do. Cut me and I bleed. (don’t you dare!) I’m only human. Most readings are good. Most readings are fun. I don’t know how I have the audacity to charge. I love reading Tarot. But just occasionally, a reading may be sad, may not have a happy ending. Don’t press the panic button! Such readings are as rare as rocking horse droppings.
When I read for a client. I feel their highs and lows. I almost become them. I walk in their shoes during a reading. It’s a shared emotion thing. A reading becomes close up and personal.
Tarot is there to help. Let me state than now. Often, if a problem may occur in a client’s future, Tarot will give you options, foresight to avoid that problem. It’s a win-win situation. Let’s hear it for Tarot and win-win solutions then…
And so it does when I come across a rare sad reading. Help is offered. But on very very rare occasions, things won’t get better.
Let me give you an example. And I can’t say enough, this is a rare bird indeed. You’ve more chance of seeing a unicorn than having a negative reading.
No names, no pack drill. In a run-down part of town, I was asked to visit a women for a Tarot reading. OK, no problem. As the woman opened the front door, I was hit by a wave of negativity. A torrent of sadness which was tangible. I was almost overwhelmed by it.
Buckle up Kevin. It is what it is. Do your job. Do your best. I began the reading. And what a reading it was. I genuinely could have cried. I had to fight back the tears; such was the despondency the Tarot picked up. I swear that this poor woman had never had a single break, a single bit of good fortune in her entire life. Sat in front of me, she wore sadness like a cloak. She asked if she might ever find a single decent man to love her, to look after her, as she would look after him? And heartbreakingly, the cards couldn’t see this happening. I’m getting upset now, just thinking about that night. I told her that she had to break the chain of only expecting the worst. Not easy I know, but change has to come from within. I said her quest wasn’t impossible, but things must definitely change. Move house if possible. Get away from the house that dripped despair. Don’t dwell on the past failures and let-downs, Think for now and the future. Most of all, give yourself credit for having survived so much adversity. I’d like to think the Tarot helped and the goals I set her were possible. I stood up and spontaneously said, Come here. Give us a hug. We embraced for a minute or so. Not a word was said, but if ever a girl needed a hug, it was this one.
It transpires that the poor woman had been a pr******te from a very early age. And do you know? She was one of the most decent women I have ever met. She had a heart of gold in a world of sadness. I asked God that night to reach out to her. God and I don’t get on. I believe God is a perpetual menopausal woman that you don’t want to get the wrong side of…. Despite this, I still asked a favour on behalf of my client. Come on God, I don’t ask very often.
Fingers crossed.

Orbs.  Tricks of the light?  Tricks of the dark too…Orbs.   Once again I’ve captured orb movement in my home.  This time...
25/11/2025

Orbs. Tricks of the light? Tricks of the dark too…

Orbs.
Once again I’ve captured orb movement in my home. This time however, they caused my alarm to go off. How does that work? And if an orb isn’t seen by the naked eye, orbs are technically invisible and yet, my alarm goes off and my phone says movement triggered the alarm.
It’s said, (scientifically) that they're actually a common camera interference that can distort your footage. Saying that, if they are only a trick of the light, how come they trigger alarms? Especially alarms like mine that are activated by movement. And how can they trigger an alarm in a sealed, pitch-black room? A common camera interference, sounds a bit of a lazy explanation. Scientists. Love them or hate them, say that due to weight/wing ratio, bees can’t possibly fly (look it up) How extraordinary then, you see bees fly. I used to work in an orchid house, and bees loved them. I’d regularly have half a dozen bees on the inside of my t-shirt. And they didn’t climb up my leg to get there! (and I was never stung) I like bees.
Also, orbs can dance around a room. They can go slow, they can change direction super-fast too. And all this in a sealed room with no air movement. So what’s going on? My son laughs at me (a professional photographer) ‘Dad it’s nothing. Why do you make out it’s something ethereal when it’s not?’ ‘OK’ says I. ‘Explain why orbs can trigger motion sensors?’ I’m still waiting for a reply.
Orbs. You gotta love em.

Yesterday, upon the stair,I met a man who wasn't there!He wasn't there again today,I wish, I wish he'd go away!That poem...
19/11/2025

Yesterday, upon the stair,
I met a man who wasn't there!
He wasn't there again today,
I wish, I wish he'd go away!

That poem always makes me smile. It takes me back 30 years. I was a craftsman gardener, in a relationship with a witch (seriously, but that's another story). I was at work. Bev was at home. Unfortunately it was the depths of winter and minus something silly. The cold ate into your soul. My team were on a Godforsaken hillside, cutting a hawthorn hedge. It was torture. I said to my colleagues, '2pm. Another 2 hours to go. I wish to God I was home. I hate this job.' So, we finished out task and I rode home on my motorcycle. As soon as I walked in, Bev said, 'Did you come home today?' I laughed and said 'No, but I wanted to.' Bev gave me one of her smiles and said, You did come home, you know. She explained. Apparently Bev was upstairs tidying our bedroom. She said she didn't hear my motorcycle (which was usual) but she heard the front door open, and heard me walk up the stairs. I put my head around the bedroom door, smiled at her then walked into the bathroom (adjacent to our bedroom door) Bev waited a little while, but I didn't come out. When she came to look, no one was there. I was gone. It was 2pm. If Bev said it happened, it happened.The Germans have a word for this. It's Doppelganger. It means An apparition or double of a living person. I believe I so wanted to be home that day at 2pm, part of me actually did go home, and was seen there. Strange but true. It's a funny old world...

Strange but true.  I recently bought 3 Ouija boards in a closing down sale. Was my intention to  try one of them out at ...
12/11/2025

Strange but true. I recently bought 3 Ouija boards in a closing down sale. Was my intention to try one of them out at home? Not On Your Life…. No chance. I’ve encountered Ouija several times in my life, and I always find them trouble. Yes, I’ve seen them work well, but I wouldn’t have a working Ouija board under my roof, ever. (they dwell in my garage)
It’s not what they do. It’s what they can do without you realising it. Lets get the instructions out. OK, this is a tool, a conduit to talk to spirits, the dead, those on another plain of existence. Sounds interesting. Why not? Right. Time out. Who do you expect to contact with a Ouija board? Your grandmother? A once cherished partner or lover? General George Custer? On a good day, your wish might come true. But ask yourself this? Is it really one of the previous 3 that’s made contact? Or is it a devious spirit that’s pretending to be someone they are not? You might be taken in by The Imp of the Perverse for all you know. Who’s to say whatever/whoever gets through is telling the truth?
Lower spirits are always around and will say anything to gain your confidence. And there’s the sting. You really don’t want such entities in your living room. What starts as a bit of fun can spiral down and play games with your mind. Thanks but no thanks. I’ll watch a football match with a glass of wine if that’s OK? Yes, I will use a Ouija board at someone’s house, but it comes away with me when I leave, so that the client won’t overdose on it.
From ghosties and ghoulies and long-legged Beasties, and things that go bump in the night. Good Lord deliver us. Amen. (an old Cornish prayer.) I can cope with all those. I treat a Ouija board with much more caution.

21/10/2025

OK, here's the deal. I go away on holiday in 10 days. I'm getting a lot more interest in my humble Tarot site recently, and so, I'm offering 2 Free Tarot readings to the first 2 people who contact me. All I need from you is your full name, your date of birth and maybe a couple of direct questions you may have for the Tarot. If your one of the lucky 2, congratulations. I'm sorry I haven't the time to reply to those who missed out, but I will repeat this offer over the next few months. I will need your email address to send you your reading. I look forward to reading for you.

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