03/09/2026
Sometimes what we think is the trigger to how we are feeling can actually be something else.
A childhood memory that as been buried, but the emotional attachment still surfaces in the subconscious mind in certain situations.
A recall of a situation or event that becomes changed over time.
The way the subconscious mind stores and recalls memories can effect how a situation is perceived and responded to.
Talking about it in therapy helps to guide you towards your own resolution and understanding of what has happened to make you feel the way you do. Once you can understand and make a connection you can resolve, reframe and reset.
Somtimes all we need is to feel we are heard and understood to understand it ourselves.
Clients say that:
They hadn't thought of it like that, and now it makes sense.
That's changed everything, I understand it now, i understand why I responded in that way.
It's helped me understand myself, and now i have a better relationship with my family.
Changing perpectives changes lives.