19/05/2026
One of the questions I am asked most often as a medium is, “What is it like for children who pass into the spirit world?”
This is something I speak about not only through my work as a medium, but through the deepest soul pain a parent can experience. I lost my daughter when she was young, and there are simply no words within this earthly language that can truly describe that grief. It changes you forever. It is not something a parent ever fully heals from; instead, we slowly learn how to carry the sorrow alongside the love.
Since then, her father has also crossed into spirit, and within my heart and through my connection to the spirit realms, I know they are reunited once more in love and peace.
Over many years of working with spirit, I have been blessed to bring messages from children in the higher realms to the families they left behind here on Earth. One of the greatest truths spirit has shown me is that consciousness and love continue long after physical death. The soul does not end. It simply returns home.
The children I have connected with describe a realm of extraordinary beauty, peace, and unconditional love. Spirit has shown me many times that what we call the 5th dimension exists alongside our earthly 3rd-dimensional reality — a higher vibrational plane where the soul continues its journey free from pain, illness, fear, or limitation.
They speak of mountains, lakes, flowers, gardens, animals, and vast open fields filled with light. Yet the beauty there is unlike anything we experience within the density of the Earth plane. The colours are far richer, more vibrant, almost alive with energy itself. The grass appears illuminous, glowing with a living light, making the colours of our earthly world seem faded and grey in comparison. Everything radiates harmony, softness, and a deep sense of divine peace that is difficult to fully translate into human words.
Children are never alone when they cross into spirit. I have often been shown loved ones already in spirit stepping forward to greet them — grandparents, parents, siblings, and soul family lovingly guiding them through their transition from this world into the next. There is tenderness, understanding, and immense love surrounding this process.
Many children in spirit have shown me that they continue to grow, learn, laugh, and evolve. They speak of caring for animals and pets, forming friendships, learning through joy, and existing within a state of pure soul connection. There is no suffering there. No disabilities. No loneliness. No fear. Only love, healing, learning, and spiritual expansion.
Through my experiences with spirit, I have also come to understand that the soul continues evolving after leaving the physical body. I believe our children choose us before incarnation, entering this lifetime with soul agreements and purposes beyond what our human minds can fully comprehend. As painful as it is for us left behind, some souls choose to return home earlier than others.
In doing so, they leave us with profound soul lessons — lessons that awaken compassion, spiritual understanding, strength, and a deeper awareness of life beyond this physical existence. Through our grief, many of us eventually become healers for others walking the same painful path.
As both a mother and a medium, this understanding has carried me through some of my darkest moments. It has shown me that although death changes the form of a relationship, it does not end the connection itself.
I truly believe our children remain close to us. Their souls continue. Their love surrounds us. And the sacred bond between parent and child can never be broken, not even by death.
For anyone grieving a child today, please know this: your love reaches them still, and theirs reaches you. Across worlds, across dimensions, love remains eternal. 🤍