21/08/2026
Can you spot the faulty reasoning in this OCD story?
The waiter asks, “Is everything okay?”
A completely routine question.
But OCD says:
“Maybe they noticed I’m eating strangely.”
“Maybe everyone is judging my table manners.”
“I feel awkward, so I must look awkward.”
“They seem fine, but perhaps they’re just being polite.”
This is how a neutral meal becomes a self-monitoring exercise.
The more you watch your hands, your cutlery and everyone else’s reactions, the more unnatural you feel.
Then OCD uses that feeling as evidence that you really are behaving strangely.
The feeling wasn’t proof.
It was a consequence of becoming trapped inside the story.
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