Stool Withholding Help

Stool Withholding Help 🌟 Dr Kate McGarry 🧠 Developmental Psychologist πŸ“– Check out my book for support and guidance ⬇️

πŸŽ™οΈ Confused about which laxatives are used to manage constipation and stool withholding in children?πŸ’‘ In this ERIC Helpl...
07/09/2026

πŸŽ™οΈ Confused about which laxatives are used to manage constipation and stool withholding in children?

πŸ’‘ In this ERIC Helpline Podcast, we discuss:

βœ… Commonly prescribed laxatives and how they work
🧸 Why stool withholding can make constipation worse
πŸ“ˆ What parents can expect during treatment
❓ Common concerns about using laxatives in children
πŸ’™ How to support your child through the process with confidence

Understanding the role of laxatives can help take away some of the worry and make it easier to support your child's bowel health.

πŸ”— Tap the link in my bio to access this ERIC Helpline Podcast and listen now.

05/09/2026

πŸ’© The Fade Out Technique Support Pack is designed to support children who ask for a nappy or pull-up to poo.

✨ Created to help families gently and confidently work towards toileting for poo, with a clear and structured approach every step of the way.

πŸ“– Inside you'll find:

βœ… A simple 3-stage step-by-step plan
βœ… Guidance on when to move to the next stage
βœ… Troubleshooting tips for common challenges
βœ… Detailed support for every step of the journey
βœ… 3 original Squiggy the Poo stories to help your child feel relaxed and confident

πŸ’› Created to take the guesswork out of the process and give parents a practical, supportive plan to follow.

πŸ”— Tap the link in my bio to access this resource.

04/09/2026

πŸ’© Does your child really need laxatives?

One of the most common questions I get asked is:

"But their diet is really good. Surely they don't need laxatives?"

The reality is that for many children who withhold poo, diet alone is often not enough.

🌽 Yes, fibre matters. πŸ’§ Yes, hydration matters. πŸ₯¦ Yes, a balanced diet supports healthy bowel habits.

But when a child is withholding, the challenge isn't always what's going into the body. It's what's happening when poo stays in the bowel for too long.

⚠️ When stool is held in, the bowel continues to absorb water from it. This makes the poo larger, drier, and harder to pass.

As a result, many of the benefits of a healthy diet can be lost because the stool becomes dehydrated while it's sitting in the bowel.

That's why the NICE guidelines do not recommend managing childhood constipation through dietary changes alone.

For many children, the goal is to create a poo that is:

βœ… Softer
βœ… More predictable
βœ… Easier to pass
βœ… Less painful

This is where macrogol-based laxatives can play an important role.

πŸ’§ Macrogols work by carrying water into the bowel and helping to keep stool soft. Unlike water already in the stool, this water is not easily reabsorbed by the body, helping stool remain softer even when a child is withholding.

❀️ A healthy diet is absolutely part of the long-term picture, but for many children with stool withholding, addressing the withholding cycle often requires more than dietary changes alone.

πŸ“Œ The aim isn't simply to get children pooing today. It's to create comfortable, pain-free poos that help rebuild confidence and break the cycle of withholding.

✨ Follow for evidence-based support on childhood constipation, stool withholding, and toileting difficulties.

πŸ”— Tap the link in my bio for more resources, or explore my books and support materials.

πŸ“šβœ¨ Helping children understand their body's toilet signals doesn't have to be boring.Body Science: The Toilet Time Exper...
03/09/2026

πŸ“šβœ¨ Helping children understand their body's toilet signals doesn't have to be boring.

Body Science: The Toilet Time Experiments turns toilet learning into a fun, hands-on science adventure! πŸ”¬πŸ’©πŸš½

Created for school-aged children, this practical and engaging book helps children become scientists of their own bodies by exploring:

βœ… How water affects wees and poos
βœ… How different foods can change toilet habits
βœ… Fun experiments that build body awareness and confidence
βœ… Recognising the signals that it's time to wee or poo

🌈 Especially helpful for children who struggle with interoception, recognising toilet urges, or need extra support with toileting, including many neurodivergent children.

❀️ Designed to reduce stress, build confidence, and make learning about toileting fun for children, parents, carers, teachers, and therapists.

πŸ“– Body Science: The Toilet Time Experiments is available now.

πŸ”— Tap the link in my bio to get your copy or find it on Amazon, ERIC, Waterstones Online, or Peters Books.

01/09/2026

🚨 Not every β€œpoo dance” means a child is trying to poo! 🚨

When a child crosses their legs, stands stiffly, goes up on tiptoes, or hides in a corner, many parents assume they're trying to do a poo. πŸ€”

But often, they're actually doing the opposite... they're trying to hold it in. πŸš«πŸ’©

⚠️ This is a classic sign of stool withholding and it's one of the most misunderstood behaviours in children.

πŸ’‘ If we misread these signs, we can miss the real issue and delay the support they need.

❀️ Understanding what your child is communicating through their behaviour is the first step towards helping them feel more comfortable, confident, and pain-free.

✨ Follow me for more evidence-based support on children's bowel health, constipation, and toileting challenges.

πŸ”— Tap the link in my bio for more resources, guidance, and practical tips.

πŸ’© Wondering what a successful disimpaction actually looks like?πŸŽ™οΈ In this ERIC Helpline Podcast, we talk parents through...
31/08/2026

πŸ’© Wondering what a successful disimpaction actually looks like?

πŸŽ™οΈ In this ERIC Helpline Podcast, we talk parents through:

βœ… What to aim for during disimpaction
βœ… Helpful visual signs you're making progress
βœ… How to tell when you're getting close to the end of the process
βœ… Common questions and concerns along the way

πŸ’‘ Sometimes knowing what to expect can make the journey feel much less overwhelming.

πŸ”— Tap the link in my bio to access this ERIC Helpline Podcast and listen now.

29/08/2026

πŸ’© Is your child's pooing becoming a daily battle?

If you're dealing with:

🚩 Poo withholding
🚩 Only pooing in a nappy or pull-up
🚩 Anxiety around pooing
🚩 Regular soiling or skid marks
🚩 Constipation that just keeps coming back
🚩 Refusing to sit on the toilet
..you are not alone.

As a psychologist specialising in children's toileting difficulties, I help parents understand why these challenges are happening and, more importantly, what they can do to support their child.

πŸ’™ My approach combines practical strategies, psychological principles, and evidence-based support to help families move forward with confidence.

Whether your child is withholding poo, stuck in a cycle of constipation and soiling, or struggling to transition from nappy to toilet, there are often simple changes that can make a big difference.

You don't have to figure it all out on your own.

πŸ’¬ Comment HELP and I'll send you information about my consultations and how I can support your family.





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