Sub in the City

Sub in the City Integrative K/nk Therapist, Coach & Educator, Dip, MBACP.

Empowering you to consciously explore D/s Dynamics and lifestyles with confidence.
1-1 & Couples Coaching, Therapy, Educational Workshops & Events.

31/07/2026

If I hear one more person tell me they're a Pl3asure Dom πŸ€¦πŸΌβ€β™€οΈ

Controversial opinion: all Doms are "Pl3asure Doms"

In my latest podcast episode, I call out this Pl3asure Dom trend.

Because if you're not doing it for pl3asure, then what are you doing it for?

Head over to the πŸ”—πŸ‘†πŸΌ to listen now.



26/07/2026

Topping from the bottom? How about Topping from the Top?

What happens when the Dom/me has trouble receiving their partner's acts of submission? It doesn't matter how good their skills or commands are if they're unable to surrender to what follows.

In my latest podcast episode, I talk about what Topping from the Top might look like, why it happens and ways to support your dynamic if this resonates with you.

You can listen to S3 Ep1 now on any podcast streaming service. Head to the πŸ”—β˜πŸΌ to find your preferred platform now!

If you're struggling to step into your Dominant energy with confidence and in a way that feels natural and authentic, then applications are now open for our 8 Week Mentorship: Embodying Authentic Dominance.

A hybrid mentorship with personalised coaching, masterclasses and real-life, hands on experience with a submissive under mine and Master Carlos's guidance, so you can fully embody your inner Dom/me, regardless of whether you have your own submissive right now or not.

Want to know more, DM me EMBODY and I'll send you all the details!

We're only taking on 12 people for the mentorship, so you get our undivided attention for 8 weeks! No experience necessary and all experience levels, genders, ages welcome!

Want to finally let go of your fears and be able to experience the surrender and bliss of Domming with confidence, this is your chance!

What if you're not a bad Dom/me, you just don't know how to receive? In my latest podcast episode, I talk all about how ...
25/07/2026

What if you're not a bad Dom/me, you just don't know how to receive?

In my latest podcast episode, I talk all about how Domination is just as much about receiving and surrender as submission is.

That to be a good Dom/me, and to fully enjoy the dominant experience, we have to trust and let go. It's one thing to give commands and be assertive, but then you have to surrender to receiving the submission from your partner.

This is a part of domination that not many talk about, yet it is something we see so often in the people we're working with.

In the podcast episode, we give you some quick tips on how to address the challenge of receiving, and if you resonate with those, we're now inviting you to apply for our 8 week Mentorship Program, Embodying Authentic Dominane.

We start in September, and in 8 weeks you'll learn the skills to Embody your own authentic dominance, not a role you feel you should play, not the awkward character you try to enact, just true, authentic dominance that feel like YOU.

We are only enrolling 12 Dom/mes in this intake. All experience levels and no experience necessary.

You can listen to the pod as well as check out the full details of the mentorship by looking up top β˜πŸΌπŸ”—

UV PARTY - SATURDAY 18TH JULY! It's that time of year again where we meet for our UV party, this year in the SITC Studio...
11/07/2026

UV PARTY - SATURDAY 18TH JULY!

It's that time of year again where we meet for our UV party, this year in the SITC Studio!

Come mix and mingle with curious k/nksters in our intimate and modern studio space in Bournemouth.

Fully equipped with all your k/nky essentials, we'll have an evening of neon fun including:

🩷 UV painting & tattoos
🩷 Glass of fizz on arrival
🩷 Live demonstrations and taster sessions with Master Carlos
🩷 Banging tunes and atmosphere
🩷 Full use of equipment and toys

This is primarily a social event with some k/nk play invited. So whether you're brand new to the scene or a regular member, this is the place to be to connect and mingle with people on the scene.

Tickets are limited.
BYOB with a bar service - our dungeon staff will label and serve your drinks all night.

7.30pm- 12.30am

Make sure you get your ticket while they last!

πŸ”—β˜πŸΌπŸŽŸοΈ

Orange Crew incoming for Week 2 of Spicy Island 🧑Reunited after so long with Bianca Draghici app
02/07/2026

Orange Crew incoming for Week 2 of Spicy Island 🧑

Reunited after so long with Bianca Draghici

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A little light electro play to start the day ⚑ πŸ˜…Got those pesky mosquito bites while at Spicy Island? Come and see  and ...
01/07/2026

A little light electro play to start the day ⚑ πŸ˜…

Got those pesky mosquito bites while at Spicy Island?

Come and see and get zapped by his bug bite zapper for some instant relief (after you endure the burning) πŸ˜…πŸ˜…

THAT TALL GIRL | AMANDA LEIGH was such a good girl and took it like a champ πŸ”₯
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