21/07/2026
Comments Beat Questions
Have you ever noticed how quickly conversations with children can turn into a quiz?
❓"What's that?"
❓"What colour is it?"
❓"How many have you got?"
Questions have their place, but too many can put pressure on a child to answer.
Try making comments instead.
💬 "That's a big tower!"
💬 "Your car is going so fast!"
💬 "I can hear the birds."
Comments give children language they can learn from, without expecting an answer.
Sometimes the best conversations start when we stop asking so many questions.