21/08/2026
Are you aware of how much the relational dynamics you experienced growing up, may be influencing your day to day life?
Not just in your romantic relationships, also between friends and in your own family that you've created. It can also show up at work and in other group scenarios.
The unresolved negative patterns from the past, continue showing up, until we work on them, until we dare to 'face them'.
👉🏼 Have you ever looked at the patterns within the family you grew up in? You may be repeating patterns that aren't serving you and the people around you. (We learn from observing.)
💭 If your parents were separated or stayed in an unhealthy relationship, they may have created a stronger bond with you (essentially parentified you).
You may feel comfortable having a stronger 'relationship' with your child, especially coupled with having an avoidant personality.
You may think that your child will always be in your life, therefore holding on to them - not knowing that you're making it harder for them and you, to form healthy romantic bonds with a partner.
💭 You may have grown up with a mother that was more directional and carried more 'father' qualities, and attracted a romantic partner that carries more flavours of 'yin' than you.
Whilst it's not our place to change others, the more you learn about healthy relational structures and doing your inner work, the more aligned life you are able to live.
👉🏼 Join a Family & Systemic Constellations session 1-1 or in a group setting, to let go of unhealthy relational dynamics, receive more awareness and a wider perspective about life.
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