21/04/2022
AVOID DISAGREEMENTS IN RELATIONSHIP ❤️
Disagreement are inevitable.🙅🏻♀️
EVERY couple argues.
YES even the ones that post “perfect” pictures of their “perfect” social media.👩🏻❤️👨🏽
Arguments are expected and arguments are ok.
However SOME arguments can be avoided.🥰
Have you ever had a heated argument with your partner and 20 minutes into it you asked yourself, “what are we actually arguing about?”🤷🏻♀️
Yeeeeep, I’ve been there too. So let’s see how we can avoid these pointless disagreements .
✅1. Listen without Interrupting
Baby, I know you want to be heard, but so does your partner.
When your partner is talking, listen.
Don’t interrupt.❌
Don’t think about what argument you are going to use against them.
Listen and try to see it from their point of view.
When it’s your turn to talk, claim your space, but only once it’s YOUR turn.
You should expect your partner to give you the same courtesy and listen to what you are saying.
But you need to start.
✅2. Repeat
This is how you can really understand your partner.
Repeat what they said.
Try to repeat it word by word if you can.
Example.
A: You never make time for me, it’s so freaking annoying, I feel like you don’t care about me.
B: So what you are saying is that you feel like I never make time for you and that makes you feel like I don’t care about you.
✅3. Ask For clarification
- There may be things that you may not understand.
This is your time to ask your partner to clarify.
Remember do this with love and kindness ❤️❤️
You got this ❤️
Do you want to improve your relationship?
