16/09/2026
Life is a game.
The rules are simple.
Finite capacity. Infinite demands.
Playing the game, however? That’s more complicated.
Recently, I realised that over my 30-year career I’ve carried out more than 60,000 appointments.
The one constant throughout that time has been pain.
I’ve come to understand pain as one of the feedback systems the body uses to grab our attention.
Sometimes it’s a subtle ache or recurring headache. Sometimes an occasional flare-up of that “bad back”. Sometimes a dramatic spasm that simply forces you to stop.
All too often we see pain as a frustrating, inconvenient interruption to the urgency of now. Perhaps even as something unfair, or some sort of punishment.
But what if pain is actually trying to look out for us?
What if it’s trying to help us navigate the complexity of finite capacity and infinite demands — for both our current self and our future 85-year-old self?
I explored this idea in my book, Pain: The Ultimate Mentor, bringing together the science, empirical evidence and real-world experiences from my clinical work. From that came the Health Hexagon® — a framework for thinking about the six areas that have the greatest influence on how we juggle those competing demands.
Health Hexagon® AI is the next logical step.
It takes those discussions out of the clinic room and puts them into a simple conversational tool that anyone can use to explore the choices they face — and the rationale behind those choices — for both their current and future self.
Because it isn’t only pain that lets us know when we’re exceeding our capacity.
Irritability. Anxiety. Doubt. Low mood. Frustration. Insecurity. Nihilism. Imposter syndrome. Fatigue. Pain.
They can all be feedback.
Pain may shout the loudest, but perhaps rather than always trying to squash these signals, we should sometimes ask what they’re trying to tell us.
That’s really what Health Hexagon is about.
Playing the game of life a little smarter — for who you are now and the 85-year-old you’re becoming.
The video below explains the idea.
Have a watch. Try Health Hexagon® AI for free.