Chestnut Hypnotherapy

Chestnut Hypnotherapy Helping you overcome stress anxiety, phobias,depression and more. So that you feel more in control Hello I am Bonnie and I am a Solution Focused Hypnotherapist.

I provide hypnotherapy online and in person . I help people make positive changes in their life. It’s an honour and a privilege to help people to feel calmer, more positive, confident and back in control. I work with adults and children over 6. I specialise in anxiety. I help women in Mid Life - From Crisis to Confidence - Getting Back Confidence and a Motivated Mindset. I offer a free no obligat

ion 1 hour consultation so if you want to know how I can help you arrange your appointment today. You will be glad you did. Bonnie x

03/06/2026

Have you ever noticed how believable your thoughts can sound when you’re anxious?

What if I lose control?

What if something is wrong?

What if I can’t cope?

The strange thing is that we often treat our thoughts as facts.

We rarely stop to ask:

“Is this actually true?”

An anxious brain is trying to protect you.

It scans for problems.
It predicts worst-case scenarios.
It constantly asks “what if?”

The trouble is, anxiety is often far better at creating frightening stories than it is at predicting the future.

Your thoughts matter.

But they are not always telling the truth.

Sometimes the most helpful thing we can do is pause, take a breath and remember that a thought is not the same as a fact.

What anxious thought has your brain been trying to convince you of lately?

You’ve had the holiday.You’ve had the weekend.You may even have had an afternoon doing absolutely nothing.And yet someho...
30/05/2026

You’ve had the holiday.
You’ve had the weekend.

You may even have had an afternoon doing absolutely nothing.

And yet somehow by Tuesday you’re exhausted again.

Sound familiar?

Many women assume they need more rest.

Sometimes they do.

But often the problem isn’t a lack of rest.

It’s the sheer amount they’re carrying.

The mental load.

The emotional load.

The responsibility load.

The invisible load.

Perimenopause can make the nervous system more sensitive to stress at exactly the same time life is asking a lot of us.

Work.

Family.

Ageing parents.

Relationships.

Finances.

Everyone else’s needs.

And if sleep has become disrupted too, even small demands can start to feel overwhelming.

That’s why a weekend away doesn’t always fix it.

Recovery isn’t always about stopping.

Sometimes it’s about reducing the load.

Being kinder to yourself.

Letting go of impossible standards.

Getting support.

And recognising that constantly pushing through isn’t a sustainable long-term strategy.

What part of the load feels heaviest for you right now?

💜 Bonnie at Chestnut Hypnotherapy
Helping women feel less overwhelmed and able to cope again

🌐 chestnuthypnotherapy.com






Bonnie is a lifesaver.”🌸💕 So nice to get this positive review . ( It really made my day!)🥰When women arrive feeling over...
26/05/2026

Bonnie is a lifesaver.”🌸💕

So nice to get this positive review . ( It really made my day!)🥰

When women arrive feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, health worries and constant overthinking, they often think they’re “losing themselves”.

They’re not.

Sometimes the nervous system has simply been stuck in survival mode for too long.

Helping women feel calmer, lighter and more confident again is genuinely the best part of what I do 🌸

Thank you so much for your kind words.

If you’ve been struggling with anxiety, overthinking or feeling emotionally exhausted lately, you can book in for a chat - no pressure- to do anything you don’t want to do.

Here’s the link to book a free consultation 🔗 👉 https://calendly.com/bonnie-01/free-initial-consultation

Hot sun.5k done.Hydration underway ☀️💦No coffee today because after that run in the heat…my body was definitely voting f...
23/05/2026

Hot sun.
5k done.
Hydration underway ☀️💦

No coffee today because after that run in the heat…my body was definitely voting for water and sitting under the chestnut tree instead 🌳😅

Poppy dog only did a short run.
Far too sensible for this weather apparently.

I used to think movement had to be all or nothing.

Now I’m much more interested in consistency, recovery and actually listening to my body.

Anyway… feeling sweaty, rehydrated and slightly proud of myself today 🌸













No post-gym coffee today… just coffee ☕️😅Just been out Poppy dog    for our little run 🐾The weather still can’t quite de...
14/05/2026

No post-gym coffee today… just coffee ☕️😅

Just been out Poppy dog for our little run 🐾

The weather still can’t quite decide whether it’s spring, autumn or the end of days… but we move anyway.

And seriously that’s a bit like midlife sometimes.

You don’t have to feel perfectly motivated.

You don’t need the perfect routine.

You just keep gently showing up for yourself.

Fresh air.
Movement.
Connection.
Coffee.

Sometimes the little things really are the therapy 💜

But if you need some help you know where to find me 👇
⛓️‍💥 https://calendly.com/bonnie-01/free-initial-consultation

🎧On my run today, I listened to a fascinating podcast today about Dr Harvey Wiley and “The Poison Squad” in America and ...
09/05/2026

🎧On my run today, I listened to a fascinating podcast today about Dr Harvey Wiley and “The Poison Squad” in America and honestly… it completely challenged my assumptions about food in the “good old days”.

I think a lot of us imagine our grandparents or great grandparents naturally ate much healthier, more wholesome food than we do now.

But some of the things added to food back then were unbelievable.

People could end up eating:
• chalk in bread
• watered-down milk
• toxic colouring in sweets
• copper sulphate used to brighten pickles and canned vegetables
• borax added as a preservative in meat and milk
• salicylic acid in foods and drinks
• sulphites used to disguise food going bad
• benzoates added to preserve processed foods
• even formaldehyde used to preserve milk and meat

And most people had absolutely no idea.

Dr Wiley became famous because he started exposing how dangerous some of these practices were.

He even recruited volunteers to eat foods containing common preservatives and chemicals so he could study the effects on the body. Newspapers nicknamed them “The Poison Squad”.

What I found really interesting though was this:

We sometimes talk now as though rules, regulations and laws are automatically a bad thing.

But so many of the protections we have today only exist because people were harmed in the past.

Not just with food.

With medicines.
With working conditions.
With child labour.
With unsafe housing.
With pollution.
With dangerous products.
With financial scams.

A lot of today’s laws were written because at some point somebody got exploited, poisoned, injured or lied to.

And Britain had very similar food scandals too.

In Victorian times, foods were regularly tampered with to make them cheaper or more visually appealing. A doctor called Arthur Hill Hassall exposed a lot of this in the 1850s after examining foods under a microscope and finding widespread contamination and adulteration.

That became a real turning point.

It helped lead to some of the first proper food safety laws in Britain because society finally realised:

we cannot always rely on
businesses or systems to regulate themselves.

Of course modern systems are not perfect- Far from it.

But listening to that podcast made me stop and appreciate how many invisible protections surround us every day now that previous generations simply did not have.

Perhaps the real takeaway is this:

Our wellbeing is influenced every day by what we consume.

Not just food but stress, information, pressure and noise too.

🙋‍♀️How will you take care of your body and mind today?

Today’s plan:☀️ Enjoy the sunshine  ☀️ Deliver the local free newspapers  ☀️ Get some steps inPoppy’s plan:❌ Absolutely ...
08/05/2026

Today’s plan:

☀️ Enjoy the sunshine
☀️ Deliver the local free newspapers
☀️ Get some steps in

Poppy’s plan:

❌ Absolutely not.

To be fair to her, she is getting older now and has very strong opinions about how far constitutes an acceptable walk these days. 😅🐶

Apparently even sunny weather does not cancel out the horror of walking slightly further than she fancied today.

Honestly though… perimenopause has taught me a lot about energy.

Some days your body says “let’s go”.

Some days it says “that’ll do now”.

Learning to stop fighting that quite so much has probably helped my nervous system more than anything.




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A lot of women tell me the same thing during perimenopause:“I don’t feel like myself anymore.”What catches them off guar...
07/05/2026

A lot of women tell me the same thing during perimenopause:

“I don’t feel like myself anymore.”

What catches them off guard is that anxiety can suddenly feel much louder in your 40s and beyond.

Even if:

* life looks fairly normal
* you’ve always coped well
* nothing dramatic has happened

You might notice:
🔴 more overthinking
🔴 feeling emotionally overwhelmed
🔴 panic appearing out of nowhere
🔴 struggling to switch off
🔴 reacting more strongly than usual

And many women then start blaming themselves.

But there’s usually a reason this is happening.

Hormonal changes can affect the brain and nervous system in ways that make stress feel much harder to regulate.

Which means:
pushing through and trying to stay “strong” often becomes exhausting.

I’ve written more about why this happens and what can help here:

👉 https://perimenopausesupport.uk/f/understanding-perimenopause-and-how-to-manage-it-naturally

Today’s post-gym coffee ☕️Still wearing cycling gloves because apparently my hands now believe anything below 17 degrees...
07/05/2026

Today’s post-gym coffee ☕️

Still wearing cycling gloves because apparently my hands now believe anything below 17 degrees is an Arctic expedition 😄

I used to think exercise only counted if it was intense or exhausting.

Now I see it differently.

Movement has become part of how I look after my mind as well as my body.

I notice the difference afterwards.
Clearer head.
Calmer mood.
More energy.

And yes… I may also be slightly influenced by my son who is currently doing the World Cycle Challenge 🚴‍♂️









I wish more perimenopausal women knew this.You don’t need to do everything at once.When your mind feels full, even reply...
04/05/2026

I wish more perimenopausal women knew this.

You don’t need to do everything at once.

When your mind feels full, even replying to one message can feel like a lot.

Start with one.

That small step often makes the next one easier.

That’s how momentum builds.

If you’d like some simple ways to help with this, my Anxiety Toolkit gives you practical steps you can use straight away.

👉 https://sales.chestnuthypnotherapy.com/peri-anxiety-toolkit/






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