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I'm a relationship and family therapist and coach, passionate about truly understanding and loving ourselves and others to have more meaningful connections - and happier lives 💖 The Get you get others method helps you to better understand how you process the world, identify experiences and blocks that are keeping you stuck, release unhelpful beliefs that no longer serve and show you how to maintain this new way of being to ensure you keep moving forward and don’t go back.

Behind every conversation, workshop, profile and breakthrough is this gorgeous lady in red ❤️We’re incredibly grateful f...
06/06/2026

Behind every conversation, workshop, profile and breakthrough is this gorgeous lady in red ❤️

We’re incredibly grateful for her passion, wisdom, and unwavering commitment to what you do!

And honestly, these photos were too lovely not to share! Xx

The GYGO Team 🫶🏻



"Have you locked the door?""Have you got your coat?""What time are you home?""Text me when you get there."To a child, it...
05/06/2026

"Have you locked the door?"
"Have you got your coat?"
"What time are you home?"
"Text me when you get there."

To a child, it can sound like:
"Dad's worrying again."
"Dad's being strict."
"Dad's asking questions."

But for many Square dads, those questions mean something else.

"I care about you."
"I want you safe."
"I'm thinking ahead."

Not everyone says love in the same language.
Some people say it through planning.
Through protecting.

Through making sure everybody gets home safely.





One of the biggest myths about fatherhood is that great dads never get it wrong.They do.They lose patience.They get tire...
04/06/2026

One of the biggest myths about fatherhood is that great dads never get it wrong.

They do.
They lose patience.
They get tired.
They work too much sometimes.
They miss things.

They’re human.

What children remember most is not perfection.

It’s presence.

The conversation in the car.
The silly joke.
The football match.
The bedtime chat.
The feeling that somebody was there.

If you’re a dad reading this, save it for the days you feel like you’re failing.

You might be doing far better than you think.

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More time.More patience.More holidays.More memories.Yet when you ask their children what they remember, it's rarely the ...
04/06/2026

More time.
More patience.
More holidays.
More memories.

Yet when you ask their children what they remember, it's rarely the big things.

It's:

"Dad always came to watch."
"Dad made us laugh."
"Dad was there when I needed him."
"Dad tried."

Children are not looking for perfect fathers.
They're looking for fathers who show up.

The dads worrying they're getting it wrong are often the dads who care the most.





03/06/2026

People told me the toddler years would be hard.

The sleepless nights.
The tantrums.
The constant mess.

But honestly?

The hardest years for me were the school years.

Watching your child struggle and not knowing why is heartbreaking.

You try to help.
You try to encourage them.
You try to fix things.

But when your child is anxious, overwhelmed or struggling with school, it can leave parents feeling helpless too.

Sometimes children are not refusing school because they are difficult.

Sometimes there is something underneath that has not been understood yet.

The sooner we understand what a child needs, the sooner we can start putting the right support in place.

If you are currently navigating school struggles with your child, please know you are not alone.

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They notice when Mum is stressed.They notice when Dad is quiet.They notice when friends are upset.They notice when someb...
02/06/2026

They notice when Mum is stressed.
They notice when Dad is quiet.
They notice when friends are upset.
They notice when somebody seems left out.

The problem is, they often learn to carry those feelings instead of talking about their own.

I've seen Heart boys who can tell you exactly how everybody else is feeling.
But have absolutely no idea how to explain what's happening inside themselves.

Not because they lack emotions.
Because they have spent so long managing everybody else's.

Sometimes the kindest child in the room is carrying the heaviest emotional load.





Most parents say “You’ll be fine” because they care.Not because they are dismissing their child.But sometimes reassuranc...
02/06/2026

Most parents say “You’ll be fine” because they care.

Not because they are dismissing their child.

But sometimes reassurance arrives too early.

Before children can feel reassured, they often need to feel heard.

Especially boys.

Many boys grow up learning how to cope, push through and stay strong.

The problem is they can also learn to keep worries to themselves.

A simple change in language can make a huge difference.

Save this list for the next difficult conversation.

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We want to reassure.We want to help.We want to take away the worry.But sometimes a child hears something different."I sh...
02/06/2026

We want to reassure.
We want to help.
We want to take away the worry.

But sometimes a child hears something different.

"I shouldn't be struggling."
"I need to deal with this myself."
"My feelings aren't important."

This can be especially true for boys.

Many boys grow up hearing messages about being strong, coping and getting on with it.

So when they're worried, overwhelmed or scared, they often learn to hide it.

Sometimes children do not need reassurance first.
They need understanding first.

Before telling them they'll be fine, try asking:
"What feels hardest about it?"

That one question can change the whole conversation.



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