31/08/2026
FOCUS
There is a big link between focus and our other summer themes but once again I think it deserves its own place on the grid.
Focus is becoming increasingly difficult to have in the world we now live in. Our phones provide a million distractions which sometimes are a godsend, but other times really hold us back. We all need to have our feet squarely in the present some of the time and not be dragged somewhere else either physically or mentally. We are so often only ‘half present’ to those around us and when you are trying to talk to someone who isn’t entirely listening it doesn’t feel great.
Something I was super excited about was going off grid intentionally this summer a couple of times. A few years ago, I would never bring my phone on holiday with me at all but just rely on my husband’s if someone needed to contact us but somehow, I phased that out. We went to the Lake District and the Yorkshire Dales during these 6 weeks and then onto Kefalonia (all so beautiful). We did some remote walks which enforced being present and focused (much to my teenager’s disgust!)
When you give birth, you absolutely need to be focused and present. Your body will be telling you what to do and without focus you won’t be able to listen and respond. This is no different to all parts of our lives really but is magnified when you labour.
I’m determined to try to focus on the here and now more often. It might feel uncomfortable sometimes but I’m excited by what I will gain.
We’d love to hear your perspective on this
Linda & Luci x