08/06/2026
Lately, I’ve realised how much time I spend worrying about what my children will remember about me.
Will they remember that I was on my phone too much?
The times I shouted?
The days I was stressed, overwhelmed and overstimulated?
Will one of them feel like I got it wrong?
The thing is, I don’t think these worries come from not caring.
I think they come from caring deeply.
And if there’s one thing I’ve learned over the last few years, it’s that parenting isn’t about getting it right all the time.
It’s about repair.
Going back after you’ve shouted.
Saying, “I’m sorry.”
Explaining that grown ups get things wrong too.
Having the conversation.
Trying again tomorrow.
My children are 11, 7 and 5. I’m worrying about what they’ll remember in twenty years when I’m still right in the middle of creating those memories.
What I do know is that I’m far more aware of my behaviour as a parent than I used to be.
And when I get it wrong, I’ll keep repairing.
Because I think that’s one of the most important lessons we can teach our children.
Do you ever think about what your children will remember about you?
