30/10/2026
Last night i went to Blackhill Club to see Stephen Black a clairvoyant, (he was absolutely brilliant and I highly recommend getting along to see him if it's your thing. He is certainly the real deal)
The club is somewhere very personal to me and Dad, as it's where we used to drink every Friday night and just a stone's throw from his pigeon loft.
I went with my sister Sarah hoping to hear from him. I only had one question, was it the medication that contributed to his sudden su***de?
Sadly, I never got that answer.
However two things really stood out.
Firstly, seeing so many familiar faces, people I hadn't seen for years, coming over for a chat. A lovely reminder of how good life is and how important human connection can be.
Secondly, the messages from people who had passed, to their loved ones, particularly those who had taken their own lives or died through destructive behaviours. So many spoke of becoming overwhelmed by life, never intending to hurt the people they'd left behind.
The message coming through time and again was the same.
Stop worrying. Live your life. Take that chance. Do the things you've been putting off. Let go of what's holding you back.
I came away with an even stronger determination to push forward with Keep A Hold helping people believe
Too many people reach a point where they feel they simply can't cope anymore.
Our missing is to inspire people to create a life they no longer want to escape from.
If you're struggling to move in with life, not just because of grief, don't know how to get out of the rut you find yourself in; maybe destructive behaviours are holding you back or simply you don't know how or what to do we can help.
Drop me a message, either on here, on the mobile number and we can have a 30 minute no obligation chat.