20/06/2026
If you keep setting a limit, meaning it, then blowing past it once you start drinking, please stop calling that weak willpower.
For a lot of people, the real issue is that alcohol has become tied to relief and reward. By the time you are trying to stop, the loop is already running.
That is why the 'off switch' can feel missing.
Understanding the pattern changes the conversation. Less shame. More clarity. Better decisions.