14/08/2026
There might still be 3 weeks of summer left⦠but your childās mind could already be in September. š¤
New class. New teacher. New friends. Maybe even a completely new school.
And back-to-school worries donāt always wait until the night before.
Your child might not actually say āIām worried about September.ā Sometimes it comes out in different ways, or sometimes they simply need a little more reassurance and connection as the new term gets closer.
After 20 years as a reflexologist, and as a mum myself, these are 5 simple things Iād try now:
1. šæ Solar Plexus reflex
Find the soft area just underneath the padded ball of the foot, below the second and third toes. Using your thumb, gently work this spot in slow circles for around 30 seconds on each foot.
2. š Diaphragm line + slow breathing
Feel for the padded ball of the foot that runs underneath all the toes. The diaphragm reflex runs in a line just underneath this padded area, from one side of the foot to the other. Slowly work your thumb along this line while taking a few lovely slow breaths together.
3. š¤ Gentle whole-foot hold
Finish by holding their feet or using slow, soothing strokes over the whole foot. Itās less about doing the āperfectā technique and more about giving them a few quiet minutes of connection.
4. š¬ Ask a different bedtime question
Instead of āAre you worried about going back to school?ā try:
āWhatās one thing youāre looking forward to and one thing youāre not so sure about?ā
It gives them an opening to tell you whatās on their mind without putting the word worried into their mouth.
5. ⨠Give the worry somewhere to go
Before bed, ask them to write or draw anything thatās going round in their head. Fold it up and put it away until tomorrow. A simple way of giving all those thoughts that suddenly appear when their head hits the pillow somewhere else to be for the night.
Because supporting them doesnāt always need one big solution.
Sometimes itās simply having a little toolbox of things to reach for when they need you. š¤
And perhaps thatās something we mums need too.
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