14/10/2026
Let me know if this sounds like you. So you keep everyone happy. You hold it all together BUT you still feel like you’re never quite enough?
This is because most of us are running scripts we never chose. I see it all of the time in my sessions. Rules like “I’m only valued when I’m useful” or “I should keep other people happy”. The thing is, these rules were learned early, often for good reason. They kept us connected, safe, liked. However just because they were helpful then, doesn’t mean they are helpful now!
If this feels like you, this week I want you to try the PUC technique: Pause, Unhook, Choose. Swap one automatic yes for “Let me check and get back to you”, and notice what happens.
If you are curious what’s really running the show for you? My free Alignment Audit takes 6 minutes and shows you the pattern most likely holding you back. Comment AUDIT and I’ll send you the link, or find it in my bio 🙏
Save this for the next time you’re about to say yes on autopilot, and send it to the friend who needs to hear it ✨