09/08/2026
Let this image sink in for a moment......
Our early life shapes us much more than you might think. Constant exposure to criticism, comparison, and always being told to be quiet, being told that your voice doesnt matter can cause so much pain and so much trauma.
In narcissistic parental abuse the damage can be so deep and so profound. This is probably the most damaging type of narcissistic abuse because as children we look to our parents first for safety.
And worse...the world image of the family is not what is behind closed doors. For a child that's hard to navigate.
In the world narrative we are told to unconditionally love and to 'respect your parents' .....and you may want to, but nothing you do is right. π
And so π you may find yourself tip toeing around them and questioning your every move.
You are on edge, hypervigilent, smeared, isolated....
When they argue or things go wrong...it was always your fault.
But here is the good news...none of this was your fault, even if you were told that it was.
You were not responsible for the fighting...the arguing...the drama.
And you don't have to carry the shame.
Healing with proper support and therapy can ensure you don't carry the patterns and cycle that hurt you.
You can heal with dignity and know your own truth.
With love and compassion.
Maria π€