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07/09/2026

07/09/2026

TRICHOTILLOMANIA:
WHEN HAIR PULLING BECOMES DIFFICULT TO CONTROL
Do you find yourself pulling your hair without fully realising you're doing it?
Perhaps you pull when you're stressed.
When you're concentrating.
When you're watching television.
When you're alone.
Or when you're experiencing difficult emotions.
You may have promised yourself:
“I'm going to stop.”
But somehow, you find yourself doing it again.
This can be a sign of trichotillomania, also known as hair-pulling disorder.
Trichotillomania involves recurrent urges to pull out hair and difficulty resisting those urges.
For some people, the behaviour can create a temporary sense of relief, release or satisfaction.
And that temporary response can reinforce the behaviour.
A typical pattern might look like this:
Tension builds.
An urge appears.
Hair pulling happens.
There is temporary relief.
And then there may be regret, frustration or shame.
The cycle can then repeat.
It's important to understand that this isn't simply a matter of lacking willpower.
Compulsive behaviours can involve powerful interactions between emotions, habits, attention and reward.
So rather than simply telling yourself:
“Stop pulling.”
It can be more useful to understand when and why the urge appears.
A useful coaching technique is to become a pattern detective.
Notice:
When does the urge happen?
What are you doing?
What are you feeling?
Where are your hands?
What happened immediately beforehand?
And what do you experience after pulling?
You can then begin developing alternative responses for those situations.
For example, creating a physical interruption between the urge and the behaviour can give you a moment to choose a different response.
From a neuroscience perspective, repeated behaviours can become increasingly automatic because the brain learns associations between triggers, actions and consequences.
But automatic doesn't mean permanent.
With repeated practice, new responses can be developed.
Coaching can help with awareness, trigger identification, behavioural strategies and accountability.
Hypnotherapy may also help some people explore underlying emotional patterns, stress responses and beliefs associated with the behaviour.
However, trichotillomania is a recognised mental health condition, and evidence-based psychological treatment, particularly approaches designed for body-focused repetitive behaviours, may be appropriate.
So if you're struggling with hair pulling, don't shame yourself.
You're not weak.
And you're not failing because you've found it difficult to stop.
Instead, start by becoming curious about the behaviour.
Ask:
“What happens just before the urge?”
Understanding the pattern is an important part of changing it.
And if the behaviour is causing distress, hair loss, skin damage or affecting your everyday life, professional support can help.
You don't have to fight the urge alone.
The goal is not simply to stop a behaviour.
It's to understand what drives it — and learn healthier ways to respond.
Call Stuart - 07825 599340 in confidence to discuss how a personalised programme will help control hair pulling
[email protected]
www.harleystreetaddictionspecialist.co.uk

07/09/2026

TRICHOTILLOMANIA:
WHEN HAIR PULLING BECOMES DIFFICULT TO CONTROL
Do you find yourself pulling your hair without fully realising you're doing it?
Perhaps you pull when you're stressed.
When you're concentrating.
When you're watching television.
When you're alone.
Or when you're experiencing difficult emotions.
You may have promised yourself:
“I'm going to stop.”
But somehow, you find yourself doing it again.
This can be a sign of trichotillomania, also known as hair-pulling disorder.
Trichotillomania involves recurrent urges to pull out hair and difficulty resisting those urges.
For some people, the behaviour can create a temporary sense of relief, release or satisfaction.
And that temporary response can reinforce the behaviour.
A typical pattern might look like this:
Tension builds.
An urge appears.
Hair pulling happens.
There is temporary relief.
And then there may be regret, frustration or shame.
The cycle can then repeat.
It's important to understand that this isn't simply a matter of lacking willpower.
Compulsive behaviours can involve powerful interactions between emotions, habits, attention and reward.
So rather than simply telling yourself:
“Stop pulling.”
It can be more useful to understand when and why the urge appears.
A useful coaching technique is to become a pattern detective.
Notice:
When does the urge happen?
What are you doing?
What are you feeling?
Where are your hands?
What happened immediately beforehand?
And what do you experience after pulling?
You can then begin developing alternative responses for those situations.
For example, creating a physical interruption between the urge and the behaviour can give you a moment to choose a different response.
From a neuroscience perspective, repeated behaviours can become increasingly automatic because the brain learns associations between triggers, actions and consequences.
But automatic doesn't mean permanent.
With repeated practice, new responses can be developed.
Coaching can help with awareness, trigger identification, behavioural strategies and accountability.
Hypnotherapy may also help some people explore underlying emotional patterns, stress responses and beliefs associated with the behaviour.
However, trichotillomania is a recognised mental health condition, and evidence-based psychological treatment, particularly approaches designed for body-focused repetitive behaviours, may be appropriate.
So if you're struggling with hair pulling, don't shame yourself.
You're not weak.
And you're not failing because you've found it difficult to stop.
Instead, start by becoming curious about the behaviour.
Ask:
“What happens just before the urge?”
Understanding the pattern is an important part of changing it.
And if the behaviour is causing distress, hair loss, skin damage or affecting your everyday life, professional support can help.
You don't have to fight the urge alone.
The goal is not simply to stop a behaviour.
It's to understand what drives it — and learn healthier ways to respond.
Call Stuart - 07825 599340 in confidence to discuss how a personalised programme will help control hair pulling
[email protected]

Best addiction counsellor and specialist in Harley Street, London. Therapy for gambling, drugs, smoking, cannabis, alcohol and PTSD.

07/09/2026

IMPULSE CONTROL: WHEN AN URGE TAKES OVER BEFORE YOU CAN THINK
Have you ever done something and immediately thought:
“Why did I do that?”
Perhaps you acted without thinking.
You said something you regretted.
You spent money you didn't intend to spend.
You took a risk you knew wasn't sensible.
Or perhaps you turned to alcohol, drugs, gambling, shopping or another behaviour because you wanted immediate relief, excitement or pleasure.
And afterwards, you were left thinking:
“I knew better. Why couldn't I stop myself?”
This is where impulse control becomes important.
Impulsivity isn't simply about being spontaneous.
It's about acting on an urge before you've fully considered the consequences.
For some people, impulsive behaviour can become repetitive and increasingly difficult to control.
There may be a familiar cycle:
An urge appears.
Emotional tension builds.
You act.
You experience temporary relief, excitement or pleasure.
And then comes regret, guilt or shame.
But the brain has also learned something:
“That behaviour made me feel different.”
That can reinforce the urge the next time you're stressed, anxious, bored or emotionally overwhelmed.
The brain's reward and self-control systems play an important role in this process.
The prefrontal cortex is involved in decision-making and impulse regulation, while other brain systems are involved in emotion, reward and habit formation.
Stress can make impulse control even more difficult.
When you're emotionally overwhelmed, the desire for immediate relief can become stronger than your ability to think about long-term consequences.
Alcohol and other substances can also impair judgement and reduce inhibition, potentially making impulsive or reckless behaviour more likely.
So how do you begin changing the pattern?
One useful coaching technique is the pause.
When you notice an urge, don't immediately ask:
“How do I get rid of this feeling?”
Instead, ask:
“What is this urge trying to achieve for me?”
Are you trying to escape an emotion?
Get relief?
Feel excitement?
Avoid boredom?
Feel confident?
Then introduce a small delay between the urge and the action.
Even a short pause can create space for a different choice.
You can also identify your triggers.
What happens before you become impulsive?
Who are you with?
What are you feeling?
What thoughts appear?
And what usually happens afterwards?
This turns an automatic reaction into something you can observe and work with.
From a neuroscience perspective, repeated behaviours can strengthen familiar associations between triggers, emotions, rewards and actions.
But the brain is also capable of learning new patterns through repeated practice and different experiences.
Coaching can help you develop strategies for managing urges, planning ahead and making decisions based on your longer-term goals.
Hypnotherapy may also help some people explore underlying emotional patterns and beliefs that contribute to unwanted behaviours.
However, when impulsive behaviour is connected with addiction or significant risk-taking, professional mental health or addiction support may be important.
You are not your impulses.
An urge is not an instruction.
You can notice it.
You can pause.
And you can choose what happens next.
The goal isn't to become someone who never has an impulse.
It's to become someone who doesn't have to obey every impulse.

Call Stuart - 07825 599340 to discuss controlling your impulses
[email protected]
www.harleystreetaddictionspecialist.co.uk

07/09/2026

IMPULSE CONTROL: WHEN AN URGE TAKES OVER BEFORE YOU CAN THINK
Have you ever done something and immediately thought:
“Why did I do that?”
Perhaps you acted without thinking.
You said something you regretted.
You spent money you didn't intend to spend.
You took a risk you knew wasn't sensible.
Or perhaps you turned to alcohol, drugs, gambling, shopping or another behaviour because you wanted immediate relief, excitement or pleasure.
And afterwards, you were left thinking:
“I knew better. Why couldn't I stop myself?”
This is where impulse control becomes important.
Impulsivity isn't simply about being spontaneous.
It's about acting on an urge before you've fully considered the consequences.
For some people, impulsive behaviour can become repetitive and increasingly difficult to control.
There may be a familiar cycle:
An urge appears.
Emotional tension builds.
You act.
You experience temporary relief, excitement or pleasure.
And then comes regret, guilt or shame.
But the brain has also learned something:
“That behaviour made me feel different.”
That can reinforce the urge the next time you're stressed, anxious, bored or emotionally overwhelmed.
The brain's reward and self-control systems play an important role in this process.
The prefrontal cortex is involved in decision-making and impulse regulation, while other brain systems are involved in emotion, reward and habit formation.
Stress can make impulse control even more difficult.
When you're emotionally overwhelmed, the desire for immediate relief can become stronger than your ability to think about long-term consequences.
Alcohol and other substances can also impair judgement and reduce inhibition, potentially making impulsive or reckless behaviour more likely.
So how do you begin changing the pattern?
One useful coaching technique is the pause.
When you notice an urge, don't immediately ask:
“How do I get rid of this feeling?”
Instead, ask:
“What is this urge trying to achieve for me?”
Are you trying to escape an emotion?
Get relief?
Feel excitement?
Avoid boredom?
Feel confident?
Then introduce a small delay between the urge and the action.
Even a short pause can create space for a different choice.
You can also identify your triggers.
What happens before you become impulsive?
Who are you with?
What are you feeling?
What thoughts appear?
And what usually happens afterwards?
This turns an automatic reaction into something you can observe and work with.
From a neuroscience perspective, repeated behaviours can strengthen familiar associations between triggers, emotions, rewards and actions.
But the brain is also capable of learning new patterns through repeated practice and different experiences.
Coaching can help you develop strategies for managing urges, planning ahead and making decisions based on your longer-term goals.
Hypnotherapy may also help some people explore underlying emotional patterns and beliefs that contribute to unwanted behaviours.
However, when impulsive behaviour is connected with addiction or significant risk-taking, professional mental health or addiction support may be important.
You are not your impulses.
An urge is not an instruction.
You can notice it.
You can pause.
And you can choose what happens next.
The goal isn't to become someone who never has an impulse.
It's to become someone who doesn't have to obey every impulse.

Call Stuart - 07825 599340 to discuss controlling your impulses
[email protected]

Best addiction counsellor and specialist in Harley Street, London. Therapy for gambling, drugs, smoking, cannabis, alcohol and PTSD.

07/09/2026

VA**NG: BREAKING THE NI****NE AND HAND-TO-MOUTH HABIT
Have you ever reached for your v**e without even thinking about it?
You might be working.
Driving.
Watching television.
Having a coffee.
Talking to friends.
And suddenly, your hand is reaching for your v**e.
You may not even feel like you've consciously decided to do it.
That's because va**ng isn't necessarily just about ni****ne.
It can also become a learned behavioural routine.
The hand reaches.
The device comes to the mouth.
You inhale.
And your brain receives the expected ni****ne reward.
Over time, the situation itself can become a trigger.
Coffee can trigger the urge.
Stress can trigger it.
Driving can trigger it.
Finishing a meal can trigger it.
Even simply seeing your v**e can trigger an automatic response.
Ni****ne can cause dependence, which means stopping can involve cravings and withdrawal symptoms.
But there can also be a behavioural relationship with the action itself.
The hand-to-mouth movement becomes part of the routine.
So quitting isn't simply about removing ni****ne.
It can also involve breaking the habit loop.
A useful coaching technique is to identify your triggers.
Ask yourself:
“When do I automatically reach for my v**e?”
Make a list.
Then consider what you could do differently during those moments.
If your hand automatically reaches for your v**e when you're stressed, for example, you might practise a different response — slow breathing, movement, drinking water, or simply pausing before acting on the urge.
The aim is to create a gap between trigger and behaviour.
From a neuroscience perspective, repeated behaviours become familiar through repetition and association.
The brain begins to anticipate the behaviour and its expected reward.
But the brain is also adaptable.
When you repeatedly practise a different response, you can begin developing new behavioural patterns.
This doesn't mean cravings will disappear instantly.
It means you're giving yourself an opportunity to respond differently when a craving appears.
Hypnotherapy may help some people work with cravings, emotional triggers and deeply established behavioural associations.
Coaching can provide practical strategies, accountability and a structured approach to identifying the situations in which va**ng is most difficult to resist.
Some people may also benefit from support from their GP, pharmacist or established stop-smoking services, particularly when ni****ne dependence is significant.
If you v**e, you don't have to wait for the perfect time to quit.
You can start by understanding the pattern.
What triggers you?
What are you actually craving?
Ni****ne?
The sensation?
The hand-to-mouth action?
A moment of escape?
Or perhaps several of these things together?
Once you understand the pattern, you can begin changing it.
You don't have to spend the rest of your life responding automatically to a device.
Your brain learned the habit.
And with the right support and strategies, you can work towards learning a different one.

Call Stuart -07825 599340 to book your stop va**ng session
[email protected]
www.harleystreetaddictionspecialist.co.uk