15/05/2026
Sometimes as parents we are so focused on ‘getting it right’ for our children we can neglect our own nervous system. Meeting their needs, supporting their emotions, anticipating challenges, dealing with conflicts.
Our regulation matters too….. In fact noticing our body, breath, thoughts and feelings while finding time to regulate and soothe will help us to be co regulators for our children.
Co regulation comes before regulation. children will pick up on the authenticity in connection that comes when we have also taken care of ourselves.
Find what works for you. for me it’s the beach for others it’s a cosy space, a dance, a run, a scream, a cold drink…… sitting on the floor of the utility room with your kindle cos it’s the only place you can get a moment of peace 👀 …… on days that I can’t get to the beach!
There may not be a lot of time, but give yourself a moment or more of what you need?