Lou Stacey Counselling and Clinical Supervision. Reg.MBACP

Lou Stacey Counselling and Clinical Supervision. Reg.MBACP Online & Telephone Counselling & Supervision. Trauma, ASD/ADHD informed, LGBTQ affirming; specialising in Anxiety, Self Esteem and OCD.

Long, short term and brief solution focussed counselling available, for both Couples and Individuals.

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06/04/2026

I have recently joined a new directory. It is for and voluntarily run by neurodivergent therapists.
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Rejection Sensitivity and Limerence. A must read for Autistic, ADHD, AuDHD people and individuals supporting  and caring...
17/03/2026

Rejection Sensitivity and Limerence. A must read for Autistic, ADHD, AuDHD people and individuals supporting and caring. https://www.facebook.com/share/1BAGkrCVGh/

Rejection sensitivity and limerence can feel overwhelming. Counsellor Sharon McDonagh explores why these experiences may be common for neurodivergent people. 💭 http://ow.ly/SwPi106vMbE

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26/02/2026

https://www.facebook.com/100070834076872/posts/947866880917772/?mibextid=rS40aB7S9Ucbxw6v

Some children and teenagers with ADHD do not just dislike criticism - they feel it deeply.

A small comment can feel like total rejection. A simple mistake can feel like proof they have failed. A neutral look can be read as anger. The emotional reaction is fast, intense and overwhelming.

This is often described as rejection sensitivity or Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria. It is important to say clearly that Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria is not an official diagnosis. It is an informal term used to describe intense emotional responses to perceived rejection.

This is not about being dramatic. It is not attention seeking. Emotional dysregulation is common in ADHD. The brain can struggle to pause, process and calm strong feelings.

Over time, repeated criticism and misunderstanding can increase shame, anxiety and low self esteem. Some children shut down. Some avoid trying. Some say “Nobody likes me” after a small problem. The pain is real.

Understanding the pattern helps adults respond differently. Calm, clear feedback and separating behaviour from the child reduces shame and builds resilience. ADHD is not only about focus. It is also about emotions.

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