10/08/2026
Can we talk about the freedom you don’t realise you’re going to miss? 🙌🏻
Before having a baby, you could just… go.
Fancy a last-minute coffee with a friend? Sure.
Want to pop out and get your nails done? Why not?
Need some milk from the shop? Grab your keys and off you go.
Now? Getting out the house can feel like a full military operation.
Nappies? ✔️
Wipes? ✔️
Snacks? ✔️
Change of clothes? ✔️
Bottle? ✔️
Toy you absolutely cannot leave the house without? ✔️
Everyone actually wearing shoes? …debatable. 😂
“I just want to be able to do something without having to plan my entire life around it.” If you find yourself feeling this way it’s perfectly okay.
Missing your freedom doesn’t mean you don’t love your child. It doesn’t mean you’re ungrateful or that you’re a bad Mum. It just means you’re human.
Motherhood can bring so much love, but it can also mean giving up freedoms you once took completely for granted. It’s okay to grieve those little pieces of your old life while still being completely besotted with your little person. 🫶🏻