The Youth Fairy Guildford & Woking

The Youth Fairy Guildford & Woking We help them SMILE with happiness, SPARKLE with confidence and STRIVE to grow and succeed. We are both LGBTQ+ friendly therapists.

A modern, solution-focused approach to positive change for children, teens and young adults struggling with anxiety, stress, low mood, anger and low confidence. Hello👋 We are Sam and Sarah, therapists at The Youth Fairy, a team of solution-focused therapists who help children, teens and young adults struggling with anxiety, stress, anger, emotional control and low confidence. We use modern, brain-

based approaches, including Solution Focused Hypnotherapy and Psychotherapy, that actively encourage young people to:

🧚 Re-focus on the positive aspects of life
🧚 Recognise strengths
🧚 Improve quality of sleep
🧚 Engage more in positive activities
🧚 Engage more in positive interactions
🧚 Feel more emotionally in control

We both work with children from 6 years old to young adults and are able to adapt our approach to work with those with additional needs, special educational needs, disabilities and neurodiversity. Areas we work with include:

🧡 Anxiety
🧡 Stress
🧡 Low mood
🧡 Anger management
🧡 Social anxiety
🧡 Low self-esteem
🧡 Low confidence
🧡 Sports/exam performance
🧡 Fears and phobias
🧡 Exam stress and anxiety
🧡 Transition to secondary school/college
🧡 Trauma
🧡 Self-harm
🧡 Sleep problems

We are both extremely passionate about the solution-focused approach to therapy. It encourages children to focus on the positive changes in thoughts, feelings and behaviours they would like to make, without the need to dwell on the past. We look for solutions to problems and focus on how they want thing to be rather than how they don’t want them to be.

🧚About Sarah🧚

In addition to being a therapist, my 25 years experience as a nurse working in critical care, has given me a deep understanding of physical and emotional well-being. I have worked with children and their families at their most vulnerable, navigating both physical and mental challenges, including pain, anxiety, depression and low self-esteem.

🧚About Sam🧚

I began my career as an osteopath and went on to specialise in paediatric osteopathy, helping children to navigate their emotional and physical health. Seeing the rise in children and young adults struggling with anxiety and depression, I realised I wanted to centre my work into helping young people with their mental health. This drove my desire to become a therapist and, of course, a Youth Fairy!

🌟 Next Steps 🌟

🧚Once you have chosen which of us you feel is right for your child, we offer a free, 1 hour initial consultation. This is an opportunity for us to meet, explore best hopes and discuss how we can help your child.

🧚 As well as helping young people make positive changes, educating them on their well-being is something we know to be an important part of the change process.

🧚 So, in the consultation, we'll explain to you and your child how the brain works (in an age-appropriate way) to create their specific problems and associated feelings, behaviours or symptoms and how we can help.

🌟 This understanding can be really motivational to children as they realise there is hope, see more clearly what we can do about it and supports them in developing more positive, healthy habits for life.

🌟 This knowledge is super helpful for you as a parent too - it allows for greater understanding, creates a common language to talk more easily with your child about their well-being and gives you specific ideas of how you can best support the process (and beyond). You’ll also get our relaxation audio download to help improve any sleep problems they are having and support the process. 😴😴😴

We both hold an up-to-date Enhanced Disclosure and Barring Service (DBS) certificate and are proud members of the following professional bodies:

• National Council for Hypnotherapy (NCH)
• Association for Solution Focused Hypnotherapy (AfSFH)
• Complementary and National Health Council (CNHC)
• National Board of Modern Psychotherapy (NBMP)

Last week was A’ level results day and tomorrow is GCSE results day, and with both days comes a whole range of emotions:...
19/08/2026

Last week was A’ level results day and tomorrow is GCSE results day, and with both days comes a whole range of emotions: nervousness, apprehension, disappointment or excitement.

✨ Whilst this day is full of nerves for both parents and their teenagers, one thing is certain: nothing that happens on those days can change what has led up to this point, so it’s all about moving forward – whether good or not quite the outcome that was hoped for.

And whilst, if disappointments arise it might feel like the end of the road, the second truth is that it’s really only the beginning. The beginning of many opportunities to come. 🙌

As the saying goes, “Ones best successes come after their greatest disappointment” (Henry Ward Beecher).

⚡️ If disappointment is something your teenager faces this week, although they may not see it at first, their results leave them with OPPORTUNITY – the opportunity to give up, or the opportunity to try again, and the opportunity to perhaps try a different path that can lead to even more opportunity!

⚡️ Because when we frame disappointment in a positive light, we know it’s not the end of the road – and it gives us the hope and courage to try again.

🤯 Disappointments often lead to a spiral of negative thinking in the immediate aftermath. It’s important, once your teenager has had time to process this, that we support them in finding new ways to reframe this in a way that proves helpful and motivating to them.

So, head on over to The Parent Pad to read this week’s blog in full for more on:

🧚 How to reframe setbacks as opportunities
🧚 How to help motivate your teen after a setback
🧚 What to say and what to do next

Take a read here: 👇👇👇

https://www.theyouthfairy.com/exam-results-2022/

If your child lacks confidence, it doesn't mean you're doing anything wrong.Children naturally compare themselves to oth...
18/08/2026

If your child lacks confidence, it doesn't mean you're doing anything wrong.
Children naturally compare themselves to others, fear getting things wrong and sometimes struggle to see all the wonderful things that everyone else can see in them 🥰

One of the greatest gifts we can give them, to boost their self-esteem, is the belief that their worth isn't measured by success or perfection.

As parents, it's easy to focus on achievements, but some of the biggest confidence boosts come from celebrating effort, encouraging independence and helping children see that mistakes aren't failures, they're just a part of learning ☺️

Remember, our children's brains naturally pay more attention to what goes wrong than what goes right. That's why it's so important to help them notice their strengths, celebrate their progress and recognise just how capable they really are 🙌

Small moments, repeated often, build strong self-esteem. If your child struggles with confidence, low self-worth or constant self-doubt, the right support can help them see themselves differently.

Find out more about Solution-Focused therapy programmes on our website 🧚

Disappointing exam results can knock a teenager's confidence. They might begin to question their abilities, lose motivat...
17/08/2026

Disappointing exam results can knock a teenager's confidence. They might begin to question their abilities, lose motivation or convince themselves there's no point trying again 😫

Helping them find fresh motivation means guiding them towards what they can control now and shifting the focus away from what went wrong and towards what comes next.

Instead of dwelling on disappointment, encourage them to think about:
⭐Their next opportunity.
⭐New goals they want to achieve.
⭐The strengths they already have.
⭐The support available to help them move forward.

Remind them that every setback brings an opportunity to grow and re-write their future. Often, the greatest success stories begin with a result that didn't go to plan!

If your teenager is struggling to move past disappointment or their confidence has been shaken by exam results, remember they don't have to face it alone. With the right support, they can rebuild their belief in themselves and discover that this chapter doesn't define the rest of their story 🤩🧚

15/08/2026

When your child flies the nest they are starting a new chapter in their life! but so are you, and it’s an opportunity to rediscover what makes you happy! ☺️

This week our blog is about supporting your child's transition to university - it's also important to support your own transition.
To read the full blog head over to our parent pad:-
https://www.theyouthfairy.com/the-parent-pad/

14/08/2026

Empty nest syndrome isn't just feeling sad 😢

It's the loss of familiar routines, it’s wondering who you are outside of being "Mum" or "Dad", it's worrying whether they're eating properly, sleeping enough or remembering to lock the door. It's learning to let go while still loving them just as much as ever ♥

The mix of emotions can feel overwhelming, but they're all completely valid. If your child has recently flown the nest, here's something to remember: You don't have to rush through empty nest syndrome.

Take time to process the change. Reconnect with hobbies you once loved, stay connected with your child without feeling the need to check in every hour, strengthen friendships and relationships that may have taken a back seat, or set yourself new goals that bring excitement and purpose 😁

As you build new routines, your brain begins to adapt too. New experiences can help boost your mood, strengthen resilience and remind you that while parenting has changed, your family relationships haven’t.

In time, you will know that an empty nest isn't the end, it's a new beginning 🧚

Thought I would reshare this wonderful creative, educational, artwork as it's such a good reminder of the small things w...
14/08/2026

Thought I would reshare this wonderful creative, educational, artwork as it's such a good reminder of the small things we can do to make a big difference in our lives! 🫶

Check out this wonderful “Guide to keeping positive” created by one of my clients this week! 🎨🤩

One of the most rewarding parts of my work with young people is that the outcomes extends beyond our sessions.
Throughout our time together, my clients develop their understanding of how their brains function in relation to their emotions and overall well-being. 🧠 👍
This knowledge equips them to tackle daily challenges with a more positive outlook. 😊

Better still , they develop a toolkit of coping strategies that enables them to stay engaged in the positive, solution-focused part of their brains more often.
🧚‍♀️ This results in being more……
⭐️ Positive
⭐️ Confident
⭐️ Motivated
⭐️ Happy

🎓 They’re off to Uni with a suitcase full of dreams, a stash of instant noodles, and probably no idea how to separate th...
13/08/2026

🎓 They’re off to Uni with a suitcase full of dreams, a stash of instant noodles, and probably no idea how to separate their laundry. 😅

As your child steps into this exciting new chapter, it’s not just their life that’s changing, yours is too. Whether you’re bursting with pride, quietly panicking, or wondering how the house can feel so quiet and messy at the same time, we’re here to offer some help and advice!

💬 Our latest blog, "Supporting Your Child’s Transition to University: A Parent’s Guide", is packed with practical tips, brain-based insights, and gentle reminders that you’re not alone in this.

✨ Learn how to:
• Support their independence
• Understand what’s going on in their brain 🧠
• Stay connected in ways that feel good for both of you
• Take care of yourself in the process 💛

📖 Read now:
https://www.theyouthfairy.com/guide-child-adjusting-university-life/

You’ve helped them get this far, and they’ll carry your love, support (and maybe your Tupperware) with them every step of the way. ❤️

12/08/2026

Exam results can feel huge to teenagers, and disappointing results can make them feel like every door has closed 🫣

It’s important that you choose your words carefully, and before you start looking at options, timetables or next steps, simply be there 🥰

Listen, let them be upset and resist the urge to tell them "everything will be fine." When emotions are high, teenagers don't need everything to be fixed immediately. They need to know they're understood and loved, regardless of what's written on a results sheet.

When your teen is ready for a practical conversation, remind them that there may be options they haven't even considered yet, such as:

👉Speaking to school or college staff
👉Requesting a review or remark where appropriate
👉Looking at alternative courses
👉Exploring apprenticeships or different routes
👉Retaking exams if needed

Most importantly, don't rush, your teenager may need time to process what they're feeling before making big decisions and one of the best things we can do as parents is offer calm and reassurance.

Remind them that there is more than one route to success and that you are there to help them find it 🤩

11/08/2026

We know what a big moment it is for parents when their child leaves for University. You are probably feeling a whole range of emotions 🥹

I am here with a couple of practical things you can do to support your child’s transition. Helping your child feel confident and settle well at university will also help allay some of your fears and anxieties 😧

Sending your child to university is a milestone for both of you 🎓🥹As exciting as this new chapter is, it's completely no...
10/08/2026

Sending your child to university is a milestone for both of you 🎓🥹

As exciting as this new chapter is, it's completely normal for it to come with a mixture of pride, worry, excitement and sadness.

Your teenager is adjusting to new routines, new people, new responsibilities and a level of independence they've never experienced before. At the same time, their brain is still developing, particularly the areas responsible for planning, decision-making and managing emotions 😳

That means feeling overwhelmed, homesick or anxious in those first few weeks doesn’t mean that they're failing; it’s a perfectly normal part of adapting.

One of the greatest gifts you can give them is your confidence in their ability to figure things out. Be their safety net rather than trying to solve every problem. Celebrate the small wins, stay connected in meaningful ways and remind them that it's okay to ask for help.

This transition is helping them grow into the person they're becoming 👏

If your family is finding this stage particularly challenging, I am here to support young people and parents through life's biggest transitions. Find out more on our website 🧚

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