10/08/2026
Not all grief comes from death.
Sometimes, we grieve what has changed. š¤
A friendship ends.
Someone leaves your life.
A business changes direction.
A relationship no longer feels the same.
A chapter you loved comes to an end.
And even when you know the change is for the best it can still hurt.
Because weāre not only grieving the person or situationā¦.we may be grieving the connection, the routine, the future we imagined, the sense of belonging or the version of ourselves that existed within it.
This is sometimes called disenfranchised griefā¦.grief that isnāt always recognised or openly acknowledged.
So how do you know you might be experiencing it?
⨠Notice & acknowledge that something has changed.
⨠Give yourself permission to acknowledge what or who youāve lost.
⨠Donāt minimise it just because āit wasnāt a relationshipā or āit was only a friendshipā or āit was just business.ā
⨠Allow yourself to feel the sadness, anger, confusion or even relief.
⨠Talk to someone you trust rather than carrying it alone.
⨠Create space for the new chapter without rushing yourself to be āover it.ā
Healing doesnāt always mean forgetting or moving on as quickly as possible.
Sometimes, healing means accepting that something mattered, allowing yourself to grieve it & slowly learning how to move forward without it.
If something in your life has changed recently & youāre finding it harder than you expected, this reel is for you š«¶.