20/08/2026
**These two photos make me laugh...**
**Photo 1:** Me looking all calm and professional.
*"You've got this. Nice and steady. You're absolutely fine."*
**Photo 2:**
**she's vanished.**
For a split second I was thinking, *"Well... that's not ideal!"*
Thankfully, she'd simply climbed out of sight while I was still peering over the edge wondering where she'd gone!
It did make me smile because it's actually a bit like therapy.
People often come to see me believing they're standing at the edge of something they can't face.
"What if I panic?"
"What if I can't do it?"
"What if it all goes wrong?"
My job isn't to climb the mountain for them.
It's to reassure them, teach them the skills, keep them safe and give them the confidence to take that next step.
Then, one day, something wonderful happens.
They don't need quite so much reassurance anymore.
They quietly move forward...
..and before you know it, they're off living their lives while I'm wondering where they've gone.
That's exactly how it should be.
Whether it's climbing or therapy, success isn't about keeping someone dependent on you.
It's about helping them become confident enough that they no longer need you looking over their shoulder.
Although, next time, a quick shout of, *"I'm over here!"* would be appreciated.