03/07/2026
A tragic story of The hypocritical vicar and how he caused his daughter to end her own life
We received an instruction to carry out probate research for what the immediate family described as a very small family.
Our client's client had died in a Stockport nursing home, unmarried and without issue, and his father's side of the family told us that there was nobody on the mother's side and that the entire value of the estate (£2 million) should come to them.
Our client decided that some due diligence was required and asked us to look into the family tree.
As it turned out the mother was one of 17 children! so it was more than likely that there were some descendants still living. (It turned out that there were 42 beneficiaries on that side)
When we found the oldest surviving cousin, Mary, the first thing she did was to show us a newspaper cutting of how her mother had committed su***de soon after giving birth (out of wedlock) because her father, a local preacher, had cast such shame on her that she put her head in the gas oven.
Now that was sad enough but, while creating the family tree, could we find a marriage certificate for the preacher and his wife? Well, yes we did eventually, but they didn't marry until seven years after he had caused his daughter to kill herself for what he had already done 17 times.
The hypocrisy was unbearable for Mary who was understandably deeply bitter about being robbed of a mother because of the social mores of the day and because her grandfather was a complete s...
How to spot somebody's possible suicidal thoughts
Warning Signs Easy to See
1.Talking about dying or wanting to die
2.Talking about feeling empty, hopeless, or having no way out of problems
3.Mentioning strong feelings of guilt and shame
4.Talking about not having a reason to live or that others would be better off without them
5. Social withdrawal and isolation
6. Giving away personal items and wrapping up loose ends
7.Saying goodbye to friends and family
If anyone needs support for suicidal thoughts you can contact the Samaritans at https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help/contact-samaritan/ or by dialling 116 123
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