07/08/2026
A week into Stanley’s NICU journey, the couple in the bed opposite us said “you should try 5 weeks and counting”. I discreetly shook my head at my husband and said “leave it, it’s not a competition”.
They had no idea of our history or what we’d been through with our others. Let them have their moment because 5 weeks is HARD! Norah spent 15 weeks in NICU and I very vividly remember weeks 6-8 being the hardest weeks mentally. I remembered watching everyone around us coming into our room and then leaving 2-3 days later while we just seemed stuck in limbo. Part of the furniture. So close to the end of our journey but still nowhere near. But in that moment I suddenly realised that 15 weeks was nothing. I’d have done anything to do 15 weeks all over again, because our longest NICU journey wasn’t our hardest. Our shortest was 💔 It’s not a competition, and it’s certainly not a competition you want to win. Every second in NICU is soul destroying.
Norah 15 weeks in NICU
Stanley 14 days in NICU
Edward 7 days in NICU
Ivy 8.5 hours in NICU
Sometimes the NICU journey asks more of us than we ever thought we could give. 💔
You walk in every day with a smile, but inside you're scared, overwhelmed, and exhausted. And yet… you show up. You sit beside the incubator, whisper words of love, and hold onto hope tighter than ever before.
"You have to be the bravest you've ever been."
Not just for your baby—but for yourself too.
To every NICU parent out there: You are doing an amazing job. Your strength is seen. Your love is felt. And your bravery is unmatched. 💜