13/08/2026
The Ocean and the Waves 🌊
I've been thinking a lot about my mind recently.
At the moment, there are certainly some challenging thoughts going around in my head. Thoughts about money, the future, uncertainty, and the occasional “what if?” I have quite a lot going on in my life at the moment.
What's interesting, though, is that I'm becoming more aware of what happens when I don't engage with those thoughts too much.
They come.
They can be uncomfortable.
And then, quite often, they pass. 🍂
Another thought arrives. Then another. And eventually, the original one loses its grip. I avoid engaging with the creation of the stories in my head.
It reminds me of the ocean. I've always liked the metaphor of focusing on the ocean rather than the waves.
The waves are what's happening on the surface—anxiety, excitement, fear, frustration, optimism, doubt. They rise and fall. Sometimes they're calm. Sometimes they're enormous.
But underneath them, the depth and stillness of the deep ocean remains. đź’™
Yoga has given me a useful way of looking at this. Patanjali (the ancient Indian sage) describes yoga as the cessation of the fluctuations of consciousness in his work, the Yoga Sutras.
For me, that doesn't mean trying to empty my mind or somehow eliminate difficult thoughts. It's more about not automatically attaching myself to every thought that appears.
A thought about the future is just a thought.
A thought about a “what if” is just a thought.
It doesn't necessarily require an immediate response.
And perhaps this is where yoga has something particularly valuable to offer us all off the mat. We spend so much time trying to manage external uncertainty—our schedules, relationships, expectations, and the endless demands of daily life.
But we also have to learn to manage our relationship with the uncertainty happening inside our own heads. đź§
I'm certainly still learning this. At the moment, I'm trying to notice the waves rather than fight them.
To let them come.
To let them go.
And occasionally to remember that beneath all of them, there is still the deep ocean.
✨ Perhaps we don't need to calm every wave. Perhaps we just need to remember that we are the ocean. ✨