18/09/2026
Staying centred when life gets busy
This week has been a lot.
Our grandson arrived, bringing an enormous amount of joy and love, but alongside that there have been some very difficult and frightening moments with my daughter.
There has been worry, waiting, relief, exhaustion and the emotional overwhelm that comes with something being so important to you.
And life doesn’t necessarily make space for those feelings just because something significant is happening.
There are still businesses to run.
People to support.
Things that need doing.
People who need you.
And I think this is something we sometimes overlook when we talk about emotional wellbeing.
We can tell someone to slow down.
To rest.
To set boundaries.
To make time for themselves.
To breathe.
And those things can be important.
But sometimes you simply can’t do them yet.
Sometimes you’re in the middle of something that needs you.
Sometimes there are other people depending on you.
Sometimes you’re just getting through the day.
And that doesn’t mean you’ve failed at looking after yourself.
Perhaps, sometimes, staying centred isn’t about changing anything immediately.
Perhaps it’s just noticing.
Noticing that you’re overwhelmed.
Noticing that you’re tired.
Noticing that you’re carrying more than usual.
And maybe, for now, that’s enough.
Because the things we talk about in counselling aren’t always things you can immediately put into practice.
Sometimes therapy is simply having somewhere safe to say,
“This is a lot. I’m doing my best. And right now, I just need someone to understand.”
And maybe that’s what staying centred looks like in some seasons of our lives.
Not having everything together.
Just being present with where you actually are. 💚