Miriam Blyth Behaviour Change Coach

Miriam Blyth Behaviour Change Coach Just a woman in her 40s...The struggle underneath a good life isn't a flaw, it's a countercurrent that can be removed.

Same life, minus the fight ✨
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Omg, I’m telling you, you’ve been disciplined for twenty years+ 🥲You’ve followed the plans, read the books, done the wor...
31/07/2026

Omg, I’m telling you, you’ve been disciplined for twenty years+ 🥲

You’ve followed the plans, read the books, done the work.

So if it’s not discipline, and it’s not effort, what’s actually in your way?

It’s the invisible current you’ve been swimming against without knowing it was there.

The meaning you attach to one comment that costs you the rest of the day.
The internal negotiation before every decision.
The comparing yourself to random people on the internet.

That’s not a discipline problem. That’s a countercurrent.

And once you can see it? You stop fighting it. Because there’s nothing left to fight.

I’ve got a free video that walks you through what creates the countercurrent and how to remove it.

Comment VIDEO and I’ll send it to you.

If you agree with even half of what’s on that screen, you’re already halfway to understanding how I work.The other half?...
30/07/2026

If you agree with even half of what’s on that screen, you’re already halfway to understanding how I work.

The other half? That’s what I teach!

Most of what keeps you stuck isn’t a lack of information or effort. It’s all the drama you’ve been adding without realising it.

The meaning you’ve attached to things.
The manual you’re holding for other people.
The judgement you’re carrying about yourself.

Once you realise what’s creating all the drama, you stop needing to fight it. Because there’s nothing left to fight against.

I explain this properly in a video. Comment RIVER and I’ll send it.

29/07/2026

That moment you hear yourself saying “that wouldn’t work for me.”

But you’re cleverer than that. You know there must be more to it. You look at certain people and think, “How are they doing this when I’m finding it so difficult?”

The issue isn’t that things don’t work for you. The issue is you’ve been swimming against a belief you didn’t even know was running.

“That wouldn’t work for me” isn’t a fact. It’s a thought. And that thought has been the countercurrent the whole time.

Once you see that, once you realise the limitation was never the thing itself but what you were thinking about the thing, you stop adding struggle to everything. You start removing actual friction.

And that’s when the things that “wouldn’t work for you” suddenly start working.

I’ve got a short video that walks through exactly how this works, comment RIVER and I’ll send it to you. Or grab the ebook in my bio if you want to go deeper.

You’ve been here before. You sit down with every intention of finally sorting your life out, and somehow 47 minutes late...
28/07/2026

You’ve been here before.

You sit down with every intention of finally sorting your life out, and somehow 47 minutes later you’re deep in a rabbit hole about whether sugar is addictive (spoiler…you already knew the answer).

Your brain didn’t accidentally wander.
It saw the discomfort coming, the uncertainty of where to even start, the feeling of sitting with your own thinking, and it reached for the nearest exit.

Scrolling wasn’t a break. It was an escape hatch 👀

And here’s the thing nobody tells you, it worked.
The scrolling did exactly what your brain wanted it to do. It made the uncomfortable feeling disappear.

For 47 minutes, you weren’t sitting with overwhelm or pressure or the million things on your list.
You were watching someone argue on the internet. Your brain got the relief it was looking for.

But the plan still isn’t sorted.
The million things are still sitting there. And now you’re also annoyed at yourself for scrolling, which just adds more uncomfortable feeling to manage tomorrow.

So tomorrow, when you sit down again, your brain remembers…last time this felt hard, scrolling made it feel better. And the cycle runs again 🔁

Once you see this mechanism, you can’t unsee it. And that’s when everything changes.

You’re not fighting scrolling anymore.
You’re seeing the uncomfortable feeling underneath it, the one your brain has been trying to protect you from.

And instead of automatically taking the exit, you choose to sit with it for two minutes. Just two.
Because once you prove to yourself the feeling won’t destroy you, your brain stops needing the escape hatch.

Just wait until you see what’s been happening underneath all of this. You’ll never be able to unsee it. I can’t wait for this for you ❤️

If you’re ready to understand why life feels like such a fight and how to stop fighting yourself:
📖 Grab my ebook Freedom From Resistance (link in bio)
🎥 Or comment BOOK and I’ll send you the 9-minute video that breaks down how this actually works

You set a goal. It looks simple on paper. Then every reason why you can’t do it shows up at once 😭That’s exactly what ha...
25/07/2026

You set a goal. It looks simple on paper. Then every reason why you can’t do it shows up at once 😭

That’s exactly what happened to me while writing this ebook!

The moment I decided I was going to put something of real value out into the world, allllll the drama came flooding in. The “is this even good enough?” thoughts. The “what if no one cares?” thoughts. The “this is taking forever and maybe I should just give up” thoughts.

Classic goal setting brain behaviour, right? 🤣

Here’s what I’ve learned…on paper, most goals are straightforward. In practice, your brain will serve you EVERY reason why you can’t, shouldn’t, and won’t.

That’s not a you problem. That’s just what brains do.
But I kept going. And now it’s finished.

An ebook about why everything feels harder than it should, written while living exactly that.

This is the first piece of something bigger I’m building 👀

Want to understand what’s behind all the drama first? Comment BOOK and I’ll send you a short video.
Ready to grab it now? Head to the link in bio.

📖❤️

We all know the drift. 🫠The difference isn’t whether it happens.It’s whether you know how to come back to yourself.I’ve ...
21/07/2026

We all know the drift. 🫠

The difference isn’t whether it happens.

It’s whether you know how to come back to yourself.

I’ve got some exciting things coming soon to help with exactly that. 🙌🏼

That moment when it clicks that we get urges to do anything. 🤯They become so automatic we never even stop to notice them...
19/07/2026

That moment when it clicks that we get urges to do anything. 🤯

They become so automatic we never even stop to notice them.

But once you do… you can’t unsee them.

And that’s where things start to change. Not because everyone around you suddenly changes, but because your experience of life starts to feel different. ❤️

If you’re so done with fighting yourself and want to understand yourself instead, follow along.

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