26/08/2026
One question early in lung cancer treatment catches some of my patients off guard.
It’s not about scans or staging. It’s smoking and lung cancer, and the moment I ask about it, I watch people brace for judgement.
Here’s what I want you to know before we get there. When I ask, it’s not a verdict. It’s a data point, the same as any other fact I need to plan your care.
All of my grandparents smoked. Both of my parents smoked. I ask for information, not from a place of judgement. We are where we are.
If this question makes you prickle, it’s often not really about me. It’s the anger you’re carrying at yourself. I see that in a lot of people navigating lung cancer treatment, and some days it lands on me too.
So here’s the hard truth I tell my patients. You need to forgive yourself. Whatever energy you’re spending on guilt, let’s redirect it toward what actually moves you forward.
The only time smoking history changes how I treat you is if you’re still smoking now. That’s because treatments are less effective and side effects are more severe if you continue to smoke during lung cancer treatment. If that’s you, I’ll do everything I can to help you stop.
Don’t get angry at yourself. Let’s get angry at the cancer. Together.
If you know someone with lung cancer who’s beating themselves up over smoking, send them this post.