26/09/2026
The hardest part of this season nobody really tells you about - you can’t split yourself in two and give 100% to each baby.
And it’s my eldest who feels it the most. 🥹
He craves my attention and I can see him struggling with the shift, but the reality is the twins will never get what he had either. It’s just a constant juggle.
Most days, real bonding time only happens once they’re all asleep. That’s just where we’re at right now.
I’m out of the newborn trenches now though (well kinda), and I finally feel like I’ve found some kind of flow.
Still chaotic most days, but it’s a chaos I’ve gotten used to.
But no one could have prepared me for this bit.
If you’re in it right now with twins, multiples, or multiples of different ages, I see you! We’re actually superhuman! 🦹🏽♀️