21/08/2026
Sometimes the carer needs a little care too. ❤️
Yesterday was one of those days.
One of my clients lives with dementia, and after a particularly difficult incident at home I spent time cleaning up, throwing away the contents of a fridge and freezer, reassuring him and trying to put everything right. By the time I finally made it to Tesco to replace what had been lost, I was exhausted, stressed and doing my usual best impression of someone who was absolutely fine.
The lovely lady on the checkout knows us because I regularly take my client shopping there. She took one look at me and simply asked, “Has he been difficult today?”
I have absolutely no idea how she knew. But that was it. The mask slipped and I burst into tears.
She got up, came out from behind her checkout and gave me the biggest, warmest hug. She reminded me that she sees me with him regularly, that I’m a good carer, and that I’m allowed to admit that sometimes dementia is hard.
And goodness, I needed to hear that yesterday.
We talk a lot about kindness in care, but sometimes kindness comes from completely unexpected places. A few words and a hug from someone who noticed I wasn’t quite myself changed the rest of my day.
So, a little thank you to my lovely Mablethorpe Tesco lady. I don’t even know if you realised how much I needed that hug — but you gave this carer a little bit of care when she needed it most. ❤️