20/05/2026
What do therapists mean by boundaries?
In therapy, boundaries are the clear rules and limits that help keep both the client and therapist safe, emotionally and professionally.
These boundaries aren’t about being distant, they’re there to build trust, clarify the purpose of therapy, and create a space where you can talk openly, even about difficult or taboo topics. They cover things like appointment times, fees, confidentiality, and how contact happens between sessions. Some are discussed openly; others are part of a therapist’s ethical code.
Boundaries that all therapists should maintain include:
🟪 remaining impartial rather than judging you or imposing their values
🟪 limiting contact between you to pre-arranged appointments, as far as possible
🟪 providing consistency, predictability and security of therapy sessions – for example offering you the same time and place on a regular basis wherever possible, unless otherwise agreed
🟪 ensuring sessions take place in a calm environment with no distractions and where confidentiality can be ensured
🟪 avoiding multiple relationships – for example you should not be student and teacher at the same time as client and therapist
🟪 appropriately and ethically managing any physical attraction between you
🟪 not giving, receiving or exchanging any gifts during the therapeutic relationship, since it is not a friendship
🟪 managing the end of therapy in an appropriate way and ensuring formal boundaries are maintained during any breaks in therapy and after therapy has ended
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