09/06/2026
FAQ: Visiting Your Loved One in Our Chapel of Rest
For many families, spending time with a loved one in our Chapel of Rest can be an important part of saying goodbye. We’re often asked how it works, what to expect, and what options are available — so we’ve put together some gentle, clear answers.
1. Can I visit my loved one in the Chapel of Rest?
✅️ Families are welcome to visit during our office hours.
If close family or friends can’t come during our usual opening hours, we will do our best to accommodate you with an out‑of‑hours visit.
We’ll guide you through the process and ensure the space feels calm, private, and respectful.
2.What type of visit will it be?
This depends on the service you’ve chosen:
✅️Essential & Family Reflection Cremation: Closed coffin visits during office hours.
✅️Chapel Tribute Cremation: Viewing without hygienic treatment during office hours.
✅️Bespoke Service: Open or closed coffin, depending on what has been chosen at the arrangement.
3. If the coffin is open, do I have to see my loved one open?
❎️ If you want the coffin to be open for other people to view your loved one but you dont want to see them yourselves, you are more than welcome to ask us to close the coffin lid. We will simply close the coffin while you are in the chapel and reopen it once you leave.
Your comfort and welfare always comes first.
4. How many people can come?
You’re welcome to bring close family or friends. If you’d like a larger group or need more time, just let us know — we’ll do our best to accommodate you. We have a larger Chapel of rest which can accommodate up to 6 people, we can add more chairs or if you need more space we have the use of our large service chapel.
5. Can I bring children?
✅️ Children are welcome. Many families find comfort in allowing younger relatives the chance to say goodbye in their own gentle way.
We’ll support you throughout the visit and make sure the chapel feels calm and reassuring for them. We can take things slowly and go at their pace.
If you’d like guidance on how to prepare a child for the visit, we’re always here to help.
6. What should I expect during the visit?
Our team prepares the chapel with care so it feels peaceful and comforting.
As we request that you call us prior to visiting, you should be able to have your own private time with your loved one, without feeling rushed or having to wait to go into the chapel.
The chapels have air conditioning, so they can sometimes feel a little cool — just let us know if you’d like it turned off, or we can happily make you a warm cuppa to help you feel comfortable.
You’ll have the space you need to sit, reflect, talk, pray, or simply be present with your loved one.
7. Can I bring items with me?
✅️ Letters, photos, small keepsakes, or flowers can be placed with your loved one if you wish. There are some restrictions when it comes to cremations such as no glass or high pressured items, we will be happy to advise. If you want to bring your loved ones favourite perfume or aftershave we would happily spray it before you enter, or if they had a favorite genre of music we can play them a cd or radio station whilst they are with us.
8. Still unsure or have a question?
We’re here to help. Every family is different, and every goodbye is personal. If you’d like to talk through what feels right for you, just give us a call or send us a message.