02/09/2026
It might sound like a small question to an adult, but to a child preparing to start a new school, it can feel enormous.
For some children, the thought of walking into a new classroom, approaching a group of children or trying to make new friends can create genuine anxiety.
They might become quieter.
They might tell you they don't want to go.
They might suddenly complain of tummy aches or struggle to sleep.
And as a parent, it can be incredibly hard to watch because you can't walk into that classroom with them and make everything okay.
What you can do is help them feel more confident in themselves before they get there.
Talk about what they're worried about rather than immediately trying to reassure them that everything will be fine.
Help them recognise the difference between a thought and a fact.
Remind them that they don't need to become best friends with everyone on the first day.
And most importantly, help them understand that feeling nervous does not mean they are incapable.
Sometimes confidence isn't about making the worry disappear. It's about knowing that you can feel nervous and still take that next step.
That is exactly the kind of emotional confidence I want to help children develop through Positive Pants.
If your child is worrying about friendships, transition or the return to school, our Online Wellbeing Course is a lovely way to start exploring those feelings together before September arrives.
Explore the Positive Pants Online Wellbeing Course
Let's help our children go into their next chapter knowing they have the tools to cope with whatever comes their way đź’›