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This is bloody ridiculous.⠀803,658 open ADHD referrals in England.⠀People can wait 7+ years for an assessment.⠀Meanwhile...
16/09/2026

This is bloody ridiculous.

803,658 open ADHD referrals in England.

People can wait 7+ years for an assessment.

Meanwhile their lives are literally falling apart.

And we still behave as though diagnosis has to come before help.

It doesn’t.

You do not need a diagnosis for coaching.⠀
You do not need a diagnosis to join a support group.⠀
You do not need a diagnosis to learn about executive function.⠀
You do not need a diagnosis to get help with what is going wrong at work.⠀
You do not need a diagnosis to start finding ways to make life more manageable.

So why are we leaving people to struggle for years?

We are spending hundreds of millions on ADHD assessment while people sit on waiting lists with very little support.

That makes no bloody sense to me at all.

Stop asking people to wait until we can prove they have ADHD.

Ask them what they are struggling with now.

Then help them.

To be frank, this really bloody annoys me.⠀There are 803,658 open ADHD referrals across just 32 NHS Integrated Care Boar...
15/09/2026

To be frank, this really bloody annoys me.

There are 803,658 open ADHD referrals across just 32 NHS Integrated Care Boards, expected assessment spending is £314 million.

And people are still waiting years before they get any meaningful help.

That is shameful.

Someone can be struggling desperately with work, organisation, overwhelm, relationships and everyday life.

They could be at risk of losing their job, their family, their home, sometimes far worse.

And the response?

Wait until we have proved you have ADHD.

Why?
Why does useful support have to wait for a diagnosis?

Assessment matters. Medication matters. Diagnosis can be life changing.

But people do not need a diagnostic report before they can get help.

They do not need a diagnosis for coaching.
They do not need a diagnosis to join a support group.
They do not need a diagnosis to learn about executive function.
They do not need a diagnosis to talk about what is going wrong at work.
They do not need a diagnosis to ask for changes that might help them work better.
They do not need a diagnosis to understand why certain situations keep overwhelming them.
They do not need a diagnosis to meet other people facing the same difficulties.

THEY DO NOT NEED A DIAGNOSIS TO START GETTING USEFUL SUPPORT.

All of this can happen before a diagnosis is confirmed.

We do not have to make people wait seven years before anyone starts helping them.

What would happen if ADHD services started with:

“What are you struggling with?”

rather than:

“Can we prove you have ADHD before we can offer any help?”

Perhaps we would spend less time managing waiting lists and more time actually helping people.

03/09/2026

Another unpopular opinion...

A lot of productivity advice is just judgement: get up earlier, build a routine, remove distractions, make a list, try harder to be consistent.

None of those things are inherently bad advice. But when somebody already knows what they need to do and still cannot reliably make themselves do it, repeating the same advice louder does not make it useful.

Sometimes the problem is not discipline. Sometimes the system simply does not fit the way their brain works.

We are too quick to call that a personal failure.

Unpopular opinion...Accessibility software shouldn’t get a free pass.Whenever a screen reader struggles with a PDF, an e...
02/09/2026

Unpopular opinion...

Accessibility software shouldn’t get a free pass.

Whenever a screen reader struggles with a PDF, an emoji, a table or an image, the criticism nearly always seems to land on the person who created the content.

But the screen reader is the bit whose job is to interpret that content and make it accessible.

If an interpreter couldn’t understand someone speaking quickly or using an unfamiliar dialect, we wouldn’t automatically blame the speaker.

So why do we so rarely question the software?

I wrote about it here:

Why do we blame inaccessible documents but rarely question screen readers and accessibility software when they fail to use information that is already there?

02/09/2026

I have a theory about social media reach.

So, for science...

I am a potato.

Not sure where to start with ADHD support?I built this free guide for adults who are newly diagnosed, waiting for assess...
02/09/2026

Not sure where to start with ADHD support?

I built this free guide for adults who are newly diagnosed, waiting for assessment, struggling at work, dealing with burnout or simply unsure what help exists.

Choose what’s bothering you right now and it will show you a sensible place to start:

Not sure what ADHD help you need? Use this practical tool to find your next step for diagnosis, work, burnout, waiting lists, Access to Work and everyday life.

This week, the Parliamentary and Health Service Ombudsman published a damning report on ADHD and autism services in Engl...
27/08/2026

This week, the Parliamentary and Health Service Ombudsman published a damning report on ADHD and autism services in England.

It looks at more than 3,000 complaints over six years. Complaints rose from 410 in 2021/22 to 1,257 in 2025/26.

This got me asking myself is an ADHD diagnosis relevant? Beyond medication and validation, there is little other support that it opens up, particularly for adults.

Perhaps the diagnosis isn't the priority.

https://adhdaptive.org/adhd-diagnosis-now-what/

A slightly personal post today.My child JS recently graduated with a 2:1 BA (Hons) in Illustration.They are autistic, an...
25/08/2026

A slightly personal post today.

My child JS recently graduated with a 2:1 BA (Hons) in Illustration.

They are autistic, and the usual route into creative work can be a strange one. It rewards confident networking, quick verbal pitches and interviews. None of those things tells you whether someone can create beautiful, original work.

JS can.

Their work includes illustration, characters, storybooks, maps, puppets and animation. Their degree project, Starboard, became a whole illustrated world with its own characters and handmade puppets.

They are now looking for paid work, commissions and creative opportunities.

You can see more of JS’s work at on Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/luuohna/

If you need an illustrator, or know someone who might love JS’s unusual style, please take a look or share this with them.

Unpopular opinion...In a society designed around how different brains actually work, far fewer people with ADHD would ne...
25/08/2026

Unpopular opinion...

In a society designed around how different brains actually work, far fewer people with ADHD would need treatment.

Medication can be life-changing. Coaching can help enormously.

Yet much of what we call treatment involves helping people cope with rigid hours, pointless admin, classrooms demanding stillness and workplaces that reward looking busy.

We diagnose the person, treat them, then send them straight back into the same environment.

ADHD is real. The suffering is real.

I am less convinced that every bit of that suffering comes from ADHD itself.

If someone functions well when they can control their time, movement, workload and surroundings, but falls apart under standard expectations, where exactly is the disorder?

How much ADHD treatment would still be needed if society stopped insisting there was only one acceptable way to function?

I watched Channel 4 's The Great ADHD Myth? I agree with its broadest message!I have long said that ADHD may be better u...
24/08/2026

I watched Channel 4 's The Great ADHD Myth? I agree with its broadest message!

I have long said that ADHD may be better understood as part of normal human variation rather than evidence of a disordered or defective brain.

Society has built schools and workplaces around a narrow idea of how people should concentrate, learn, organise themselves, communicate and behave. People who fall outside that range are then expected to change themselves to fit.

Much of the disability associated with ADHD is created when a person tries to fit in with an environment that was never designed for them.

My agreement ended when the programme tried to prove its case.

The six-week “experiment” with Mason changed almost everything at once.
His medication stopped. Screens disappeared. His diet changed. Supplements, yoga, exercise, nature and more family time all changed at the same time.

Nobody could say what had caused his behaviour change. He became happier and more sociable. But he also struggled to concentrate at school and became frustrated by work he could previously do. That bit was glossed over.

Could the dose have been wrong? Could another medication have suited him better? What could the school change? What support did he need? How much weight should his happiness carry beside his academic performance?

Max Pemberton’s experiment on himself was no better. He believes he does not have ADHD, took one dose of lisdexamfetamine, disliked the feeling and used that experience to interpret what medication does to a child.

That proves how one tablet affected Max Pemberton on one day, somebody who may have been dishonest to get a diagnosis in the first place.

The programme was riddled with factual issues too.

The absence of a diagnostic brain scan does not prove the absence of a neurodevelopmental basis.

Calling ADHD medication “slow-release cocaine” is simply false. ADHD medicines include several different drugs with different pharmacology, delivery methods and risk profiles.

Diagnostic criteria require impairment across different areas of life. Reading a few common traits from the DSM and asking who doesn’t do those things strips away the part that makes them clinically significant.

I still agree with the cultural ambition.

Schools which allow movement, creativity and different ways of learning.
Workplaces which stop treating one style of attention and organisation as morally superior.
Give people more control over what support and treatment they use.
Stop treating difference as defect.

That is a huge cultural change. It will take years and probably generations.

Diagnosis currently gives people language, recognition, access to treatment and medication.

You cannot pull away that safety net while hoping that society will become kinder later.

Change society first. Then perhaps fewer people will need the label to survive it.

Channel 4 you need to try harder!

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