21/05/2026
Anger is a bodyguard.
It shows up strong, loud, protective—
but it’s rarely the whole story.
Underneath anger is often something more tender…
hurt, fear, rejection, shame.
Anger steps in to guard what feels too vulnerable to face.
It creates distance.
It keeps us safe.
But when we only listen to the anger,
we miss what it’s protecting.
What if, instead of pushing it away,
you got curious?
What is this anger trying to defend?
What does it not feel safe to show?
Your anger isn’t the enemy.
It’s a messenger.
And underneath it…
is the part of you asking to be seen.