21/07/2026
Whilst I absolutely admire the message people are trying to get across in their lovely 'care is extremely positive and we should all be carers' posts.....it's just not a true reflection of what being a carer means.
It's not all awards and glamour, or peace love and gentleness.
It's an industry that pushes you to the edge at times with compliance, toxic management, behaviors that challenge (from all angles), it can be sweaty π₯΅ , early, longer than planned, it can hurt emotionally, it can really open your eyes to the loneliness people endure whilst ageing.
HOWEVER!! Having dedicated my life to this industry I'm now on a mini mission to ensure that people we support and the carers joining me feel safe, valued and supported when all of the above hits you.....(which is inevitable in my experience) I honestly wouldn't change one decision made to this point.
The rewards and relationships you can build if given the time to do so, taking care back to a place of trust, facing challenges together, open conversations and feedback, improving and evaluating what is actually working....not only helps people to 'get by' but helps them thrive.
This is not a recruitment post, nor is it a post proclaiming to be the best care company who never gets things wrong.....its just a reality check and recognition of the wonderful work carers do ππ» and a thanks to my wee team πβ€οΈππ»