01/07/2026
The internet isn't a very nice place right now, with lots of polarised views and pitting women and midwives against one another, creating a supposed fight.
Well I call BS. Yes we passionately support and protect physiological birth and have a skill set in that, but you need to know normal to understand abnormal.
Women have the right to understand their options in a trauma informed way that creates safe, nurturing care to allow them to make choices that feel right for them. Whether that's a homebirth or a planned caesarean, deciding to opt in to an induction or declining interventions when they understand the risk/benefit and alternatives on offer.
We stand with women to have a birth that leaves them whole, mind,body and soul. The current system is failing women in the most basic provision.
So our wish for the narrative currently online in the birth world? Can we all stop fighting please. We all want better for women. This is about a system that fails to provide adequate choice, staffing, care and support that is trauma informed and holistic. I have worked in the system when I did provide that. I believe it can again.
Homebirth is not the problem, normal birth is not the problem. .
A system that is not listening to women IS the problem.
A system that funnels women through a conveyor belt of care, not seeing them as unique individuals, staff overworked not having the time for nuanced conversation, services not running adequately. Swiss cheese where women fall through the gaps and are harmed.
So if you want to know what our favourite kind of birth is........it's the one where you being alive is NOT the baseline, it's the one where you walk away trauma free, feeling in control of your choices and able to enjoy motherhood feeling empowered, listened to and like YOU MATTER.
Over and out with love and oxytocin
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