18/06/2026
👀I enjoyed a mindful moment this week, watching the busy bees gathering pollen from the brambles.
🐝🌸Bees remind me of what I see as a feature of healthy relationships - mutuality. Bees do their thing of gathering pollen, and flowers do their thing of producing blackberries as a result of their contact. This relationship between bee and bramble is mutually beneficial: both bee and bramble benefit and get something out of the relationship, without exploitation. Both bee and bramble are transformed from their encounter.
💬💬I see this as an analogy for what happens in therapy. Mutuality matters in the relationship between client and therapist. Carl Jung, founder of analytical psychology, put it like this:
"The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed."
For me, this quote speaks to the mutual relationship at the heart of effective therapy - a relationship free from exploitation in which there is mutual benefit and transformation.