09/10/2026
Even as a therapist I can become dysregulated and need to reset my nervous system to feel safe again.
I wanted to share this with you…
A random phone call triggered a negative experience and it sent me into a spin. (Nothing serious I’m ok)
It took me by surprise and apparently my nervous system was holding on to that experience a little too tightly.
It alerted me to the fact that I hadn’t properly processed that experience, and boy did it make me feel rubbish. I was in full FFF mode. My ‘panic button’ had been pressed.
I wouldn’t have known that unless it was reactivated.
I have a multitude of tools in my therapeutic toolkit and I needed quite a few of them.
So how did I help myself?
I talked about it- thank you for listening 🥰
I cried.
I listened to my body, which said lay down and rest.
I did lots of tapping and breathing exercises.
I cried a bit more as the feelings were being processed.
I checked back in to see where I was on the 0-10 scale.
I gave myself some reiki.
I laid down with a blanket and my lovely new weighted panda. (Rusty and Sammy my weighted cuddly friends in the photo)
I breathed a bit more.
I had something to eat.
I drank some water.
It took ALL of this to settle my nervous system, to feel safe and get my brain and body reconnected again. I was exhausted afterwards.
There isn’t a magic fix and as I proved to myself, sometimes we need to use a combination of things.
The tools do work, I had faith that they would. The key was I listened to my body and responded accordingly.
The more we practice listening to our body and tuning into it, the easier it is to respond when the ‘panic button’ has been pressed.
Sometimes we don’t know when the button will be pressed, it can take us by surprise.
What we can control is practicing the tools when we’re calm. Talking more about are feelings, so it feels less awkward. Spending a few minutes each day being mindful, breathing deeply and tapping.
If this is something you would like support with, please reach out and I’ll help you build a self help toolkit.
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