22/09/2026
How comfortable are you with not being good at something yet?
Yesterday, I started practicing from a new sax book and tried a new Barre class.
Both put me in that uncomfortable place of not quite knowing what I’m doing. 😂
I haven’t always been comfortable there.
I felt the need to get it right and know what I’m doing and move quickly from beginner to competent.
But one of the things I’ve practised on my yoga mat is staying curious when I haven’t mastered something yet.
What happens if I don’t immediately decide I’m good at this or bad at this?
If I wobble, can I notice the wobble rather than judge it?
If something feels difficult, can I explore it rather than force it?
Can I simply be interested in what happens next?
And, like so many things I practice on the mat, eventually it starts to find its way into life.
It’s something I notice in coaching too. Sometimes the useful place isn’t having the answer — it’s becoming curious enough to stay with not knowing for a while.
So yesterday, with a saxophone in my hands and my legs wondering what on earth was happening in Barre (thankfully not at the same time) 😂, I got to practise it again.
Being new. Not knowing. Staying curious.
I now know that being comfortable with not having mastered something is a skill in itself. And something I’m still practicing.
If you’d like to practice this join me in yoga
Tuesday 12.30 Studio24 Astwood Bank £3
Wednesday 6.15am Studio24 Astwood Bank £8
Thursday 10.00am Traditional Healing Arts Redditch £7
Sax lessons with Jay Riley
Barre with Em S
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