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Menopause Coach | Menopause Pro | Licensed Menopause Champion | Andropause Champion | Former Nurse (20 yrs) | I help women understand why midlife can suddenly feel so heavy, and together we find ways to make that load lighter.

Well done Gails Bakery โญ๏ธ, this is just the sort of thing we want to see businesses doing, not hidden away on a dusty sh...
27/08/2026

Well done Gails Bakery โญ๏ธ, this is just the sort of thing we want to see businesses doing, not hidden away on a dusty shelf but on their website for all to see. Showing commitment to supporting their workforce (or breadheads as they call them! ๐Ÿž) and taking the impact on menopause seriously and compassionately.

I absolutely applaud them and as we have one in Salisbury I will most likely pop in for a chai latte and maybe a delicious cinnamon bun sometime and share my love for this Menopause Action Plan in person โ˜•๏ธ๐Ÿ‘โญ๏ธ๐Ÿซถ

I shared an interesting article about HRT and dementia in my WhatsApp chat group this morning, and it immediately got us...
27/08/2026

I shared an interesting article about HRT and dementia in my WhatsApp chat group this morning, and it immediately got us talking.

The headline was:

โ€œScientists pinpoint exactly when women should start HRT to slash dementia risk.โ€

This one caught my eye on a personal level too. Dementia has featured heavily in my own family history, so anything looking at brain health and dementia risk is always going to make me stop and read. Add menopause and HRT into the mix, and I'm obviously going to be interested both personally and professionally.

And the research itself is really interesting.

Looking at data from more than 183,000 postmenopausal women, researchers found that women who had used HRT had around a 10% lower risk of dementia overall and a 16% lower risk of Alzheimer's disease compared with women who had never used it.

Timing seemed to matter too, with the greatest benefit seen in women who started HRT between the ages of 46 and 56.

But the headline immediately prompted a few questions in our group...

โ€œShould I have waited?โ€

โ€œI started HRT before 50, does that mean I won't get as much benefit?โ€

And this is where I think we need to be a little careful about how we interpret research like this.

It doesn't mean that 51 is suddenly the โ€œperfectโ€ age to start HRT.

And it certainly doesn't mean that if you started at 45 because you were having horrendous hot flushes, weren't sleeping, couldn't think straight and generally felt like your previous self had left the building, you should have struggled on for another six years in the hope of getting a bigger dementia benefit later!

Because HRT isn't prescribed purely as a dementia-prevention strategy.

For many women, it's about managing symptoms that are affecting their life right now. There are also conversations around bone and cardiovascular health, particularly depending on a woman's age, menopause timing and individual circumstances.

It's also worth remembering what this particular study was actually looking at: HRT and dementia risk.

It wasn't asking:

โ€œAt what age should every woman start HRT?โ€

That's a very different question.

And this was an observational study, so while it found an association between HRT use and reduced dementia risk, it can't tell us that HRT itself caused that reduction.

So for me, the takeaway isn't:

"Wait until you're 51 to start HRT.โ€

It's more:

โ€œThis is another really interesting piece of the jigsaw when it comes to hormones, menopause and women's long-term brain health.โ€

And perhaps another reminder of why conversations around HRT need to be individual.

When are your symptoms happening? How much are they affecting you? What are your own health considerations and risk factors? What matters to you?

There isn't one โ€œperfectโ€ age or one answer that fits every woman.

And speaking personally, with dementia featuring so heavily in my own family history, I find research like this really encouraging. But I also don't want a headline about a particular age to make women worry that they started HRT โ€œtoo earlyโ€ or somehow got it wrong.

I'd be really interested to know what you thought when you saw the headline.

Did it make you question when you started HRT, or when you might start it? ๐Ÿ’š

https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/hrt-therapy-menopause-symptoms-dementia-b3039514.html?fbclid=IwZnRzaAT8tXxwZG9mBWZkaWQWUNQamECQ75UqZ39tCDoygmNXQMjXLWV4dG4DYWVtAjExAHNydGMGYXBwX2lkCjY2Mjg1NjgzNzkAAR5YeoESloE7deQBG2ebr_65wAwh59u0j0Aln6jGzc5vhgJkx-hK2BxOzEPl3Q_aem_LNGiEY6HgQz2OMI1V69j0g

The study also found that women who naturally had lower exposure to oestrogen over their lifetime seemed to have a 16 per cent reduced odds of dementia

Woohoo! I did it! ๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‰Very proud to say that I have officially completed my Nervous System Regulation Coaching certificati...
27/08/2026

Woohoo! I did it! ๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‰

Very proud to say that I have officially completed my Nervous System Regulation Coaching certification with Influential Breathwork Academy and the wonderful Anna Parker-Naples.

This has been such an insightful course โ€” learning more about the physiology of breath, how our breathing patterns can affect the body and our nervous system state, and how we can start to recognise when that system has become a little out of balance.

I've learned how to use guided assessments to explore what's going on for someone, rather than simply assuming that everyone who's stressed needs to โ€œtake a deep breathโ€ (spoiler: it's not always that simple! ๐Ÿ˜‚).

And I've learned how simple but powerful breathing techniques can be used to support the body and mind towards greater stability and balance.

What I'm probably most excited about now is bringing all of this together with my menopause coaching.

Because menopause doesn't happen in isolation from the rest of life. Hormonal changes, poor sleep, work, family, relationships, mental load, stress, anxiety, trying to remember why you walked into a room... it can all pile into the same backpack.

Understanding the nervous system gives me another really useful piece of that puzzle โ€” and more tools to help women understand what their body might need, rather than giving everyone the same answer.

So yes... I'm feeling rather proud of myself today. ๐Ÿ˜Š๐ŸŽ‰

Nervous System Regulation Coach โ€” officially! ๐Ÿ’š

26/08/2026

Sept Menopause Chat Group update. ๐Ÿ’š

Does anyone else ever have a day where they just feel a bitโ€ฆ nothingy?That's apparently the word I'm going with today. ๐Ÿ˜‚...
25/08/2026

Does anyone else ever have a day where they just feel a bitโ€ฆ nothingy?

That's apparently the word I'm going with today. ๐Ÿ˜‚

I'm not in a bad mood. I'm not feeling particularly tired or unwell. Nothing's happened. I'm actually in quite a good mood.

I just have absolutely no motivation to do any work.

In fact, I haven't even made it to my desk yet. The luxury of being your own boss is there's no one to tell you off!! ๐Ÿ˜‚

I'm right at the end of my period, so maybe there's a hormonal element to it. Maybe my brain has just decided it's having the morning off. Or maybe sometimes we just have days when we're a bit... nothingy.

And I'm trying not to turn that into โ€œCome on, you've got loads to do, stop wasting the day.โ€

Maybe I'll suddenly get a burst of enthusiasm later. Maybe I'll do a few easy jobs. Maybe I'll achieve absolutely bu**er all. ๐Ÿ˜‚

But it's got me wondering about these nothingy days.

Do you get them too? And if you do, how do you interpret them?

Do you think you're tired? Hormonal? Stressed? That your body or brain is asking for a bit of a break?

Do you get annoyed with yourself and try to push through?

Or do you just accept that sometimes we have nothingy days... and tomorrow will probably be different?

What a lovely day in Wilton yesterday! ๐Ÿ’šI was a very last-minute addition to the Wilton Health & Wellness Day, and I'm s...
24/08/2026

What a lovely day in Wilton yesterday! ๐Ÿ’š

I was a very last-minute addition to the Wilton Health & Wellness Day, and I'm so glad I went.

I had so many lovely conversations throughout the day. Some were quick chats; others became much longer conversations about menopause, symptoms and generally all the STUFF we're carrying alongside it.

The Menopause Backpack definitely got people talking (even if it did end up looking slightly chaotic by the end ๐Ÿ˜‚), and I loved seeing what people added to the tree about the things that help them carry their load.

And then, of course, there was the crocheted v***a... ๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿ˜‚

Which did EXACTLY what I'd hoped it would do.

There were quite a few variations of *"Is that a...?"* followed by some really good conversations about v***al health and why, actually, we DO need to talk about it.

There was lots of interest in the different support I offer too, and some interesting conversations about potentially bringing more menopause support into Wilton. So we'll see where those lead...

I think that's what I really enjoy about days like this. You never quite know who you're going to meet, what you're going to end up talking about or what might come from it afterwards.

So thank you to everyone who stopped for a chat, shared something, picked up a leaflet or was brave enough to ask about the crocheted v***a ๐Ÿคฃ

And thank you to everyone involved in putting the day together and making this last-minute addition feel so welcome.

Let's see what comes from it all... ๐Ÿ’š

***a

What do you do to help lighten your midlife backpack load? Here are some of the things people who came to the health and...
23/08/2026

What do you do to help lighten your midlife backpack load?

Here are some of the things people who came to the health and wellbeing market hung on my little tree

Swimming
Walking my dog
Qi Gong
Yoga
Breathwork
Boundary setting
HRT
Weight training

I would love to know what helps you?

23/08/2026

Beautiful sunshine, great conversations, "Vera' the crochet v***as debut appearance at an event and thermomix delivering a plateful of delicious protein balls to my stand at lunchtime, what more could a menopause coach want.

Tired feet but happy heart. ๐Ÿ˜Š

23/08/2026

Such a gorgeous day for this wonderful health and wellness market at Wilton Village today on til 4pm.

Live nusic, food traders, gorgeous stalls and practitioner demos, plus the shop and lovely cafe are open too.

Come on over and say hello! ๐Ÿ˜Š





Progesterone or Progestogen, heard both words used lately but not sure what the difference is? Dr Louise Newson explains...
22/08/2026

Progesterone or Progestogen, heard both words used lately but not sure what the difference is?

Dr Louise Newson explains it really well here.

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