Celestial Soul

Celestial Soul connect deeply to your

- Discover your turn on and expand your pleasure and sexual experiences

Plus much more.

🦋Sex & Intimacy Therapy (UK)
🗣️Somatic Talking Therapy
🌈 Healing, pleasure, liberation

1:1 Therapy sessions online & in person (kent) I mostly work with sexual trauma survivors and LBGTQIA+ people in a gentle yet transformative theraputic container. Somatic Sexologist and Pelvic Floor Health Coach

PELVIC FLOOR HEALTH

- Online Pelvic Floor strengthening courses
- 1-2-1 Pelvic Floor Strength

ening coaching
- Talks and workshops for corporate companies, retreats and gyms

SOMATIC SEX COACHING

- 1-2-1 coaching sessions for individuals and couples.

- Explore your sexuality desires and needs.

- Come back to the true essence of you and the wisdom in your body through somatic practices and coaching

- Explore your desires, or lack of and reclaim
It

- over come shame around self pleasure and experience more expansive pleasure on your own or with partners

- Explore your sexuality - at any age. Feel safe coming out later in life

- Learn how to communicate effectively

- Stop people pleasing in every day life and ask for what you want in and out of the bedroom

- Scar tissue remediation therapy for all scars including episiotomy and c sections. Message me to book a free 30 min confidential consultation to discuss how I can help you

💞Do you hear your body’s communication? One of the things I notice repeatedly in therapy, supervision and everyday conve...
23/06/2026

💞Do you hear your body’s communication?

One of the things I notice repeatedly in therapy, supervision and everyday conversations is how difficult many people find it to notice what they’re actually feeling.

Sometimes the challenge is that the connection isn’t there yet.

Sometimes the challenge is that it is there, but it gets overridden.

The body tightens.

Something feels off.

Something doesn’t sit right.

And before we have time to notice it, the mind explains it away.

Many of those explanations aren’t random.

They’re shaped by conditioning, beliefs, expectations and the ways we’ve learned to stay connected, accepted or safe.

Self-attunement isn’t about ignoring thinking.

It’s about becoming curious about the relationship between what the body notices and what the mind does with that information.

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🎓Soooo I finished a thing This is the absolutely exhausted face of an emotional me after the last day of uni a couple of...
22/06/2026

🎓Soooo I finished a thing

This is the absolutely exhausted face of an emotional me after the last day of uni a couple of weeks ago. Drained, sad, surprised and proud of myself.

For most of my life, I genuinely didn’t think university was for people like me.

I was always told I was the creative one. School was hard. Dyslexia, ADHD, being painfully shy and somehow absorbing the message that I wasn’t academic.

The funny thing is that after leaving school, I spent the next twenty years learning.

I trained as a Personal Trainer with a focus on mental wellness, running a successful business for 12 years and did much CPD training until I realised supporting clients though that modality wasn’t enough and I wanted to directly work with mental health though therapy.

In 2019 I did my Somatic Sexology and Sexological Bodywork training which was amazing. I loved learning and studied to a high level.

But I just didn’t think I was capable of a degree and I needed one as other doors began to open for me and to do additional training I wanted.

It took me about three years to build up the courage to apply for one.

I remember sitting at my computer crying whilst filling in the application form. Not because I was scared of the workload, but because I was confronting a story I’d carried for decades.

The story that university was for other people.

The story that I wasn’t capable.

Applying meant risking finding out if that story was actually true.

It’s still landing for me that I did it. And surpassed my expectations, getting 1st’s in all my client work.

The qualification feels important, but what feels even more important is recognising how much of this journey was about questioning beliefs I’d carried for years.

The irony is that whilst I was training to become a counsellor, I always found myself drawing on the Somatic Sexology training I’d already completed, and even ended up teaching a workshop on s*x in the therapy room to my class.

It turns out that sometimes the biggest barrier isn’t ability.

It’s the stories we inherit about who we are and what is possible for us.

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☀️ Solstice musingsToday felt very different to the last twenty years.I saw family this morning and then spent the rest ...
21/06/2026

☀️ Solstice musings

Today felt very different to the last twenty years.

I saw family this morning and then spent the rest of the day pottering on my own.

Whilst polishing the car I’m about to sell, I finally repaired a piece of leather I’d been meaning to sort out for the last 18 months.

It took about twenty minutes.

And I found myself wondering how many things in life are like that.

The jobs we carry around in our heads.
The conversations we avoid.
The things we tell ourselves we’ll get round to one day.

Sometimes the weight of thinking about them is heavier than doing them.

Later, driving home, I took a road I’ve never driven before.

I’ve lived in this area for years.

Nobody had ever told me it was there.

I had simply assumed it wasn’t a route available to me.

As I drove down the lane, I remember thinking how beautiful it was.

For a moment I thought, “I’ve been missing out on this all these years.”

But then I realised I hadn’t missed out on anything at all.

The route I usually take has shown me beautiful things too.

And perhaps life is a bit like that.

Sometimes we discover a path we didn’t know existed and wonder what might have happened if we’d found it sooner.

But that doesn’t mean the road we were on was wrong.

It doesn’t mean we wasted our time.

It doesn’t mean there was nothing to learn, love, experience, or discover along the way.

The last year has taught me to stay with the moment I’m actually in. Sometimes because I had no choice.

There have been days where looking beyond the next hour felt impossible.

But today reminded me that not knowing the map doesn’t mean there isn’t a way forward.

Sometimes there are roads available to us that we don’t yet know exist.

Sometimes we only find them by becoming curious enough to turn down them.

And sometimes, even when we don’t know the route, we still somehow find our way home.

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☀️ What if you gave yourself space to slow down? I’m hosting a small retreat in the Spanish mountains this July.Gentle t...
18/06/2026

☀️ What if you gave yourself space to slow down?

I’m hosting a small retreat in the Spanish mountains this July.

Gentle therapeutic practices.

Creativity.

Rest.

Good food.

Poolside afternoons.

Mountain views.

Space to reconnect with yourself.

3 spaces remaining.

Comment SUN ☀️ for more info

Much love
Nick

05/06/2026

⚠️ ANTICIPATORY ANXIETY

One of the things I hear repeatedly in work around intimacy and s*xual trauma is anticipatory anxiety.

Not necessarily fear of touch, closeness, affection, or intimacy itself, but fear about where it might lead.

The pressure to continue.
The fear of disappointing somebody.
The fear of having to say no.
The fear of conflict, guilt, shutdown, or going along with something beyond your limits.

Sometimes people begin avoiding intimacy altogether, not because they do not want closeness, but because their body no longer fully trusts that connection will remain safe, negotiable, mutual, or emotionally manageable.

I think rebuilding intimacy often involves slowly rebuilding trust with yourself too. Learning to notice:
What feels like yes?
What feels like no?
What feels like maybe?
What feels like pressure?
What feels like genuine desire?

In my work, I often use practical somatic tools to help people begin exploring these things more safely and clearly, such as intimacy and connection menus that support people in identifying what feels comfortable, uncomfortable, uncertain, negotiable, or wanted, whilst helping create more open communication and choice within relationships.

Importantly, consent and comfort are ongoing conversations, not fixed agreements, and people remain in choice throughout that process.

🫶🏼 it’s never JUST about s*x … What would intimacy feel like if it was not something you feared, performed, or felt pres...
04/06/2026

🫶🏼 it’s never JUST about s*x …

What would intimacy feel like if it was not something you feared, performed, or felt pressure to achieve?

Not a goal to reach.
Not something measured by performance, or**sm, or expectation.

But something embodied, negotiated, and safe enough for you to remain present within yourself too.

🏳️‍⚧️ PRIDE IS A PROTEST 🏳️‍🌈Pride is a protest, but it looks like a celebration.Historically, it has always been both.P...
01/06/2026

🏳️‍⚧️ PRIDE IS A PROTEST 🏳️‍🌈

Pride is a protest, but it looks like a celebration.

Historically, it has always been both.

Pride holds grief and joy simultaneously.

Grief for what is criminalised, pathologised, what is hidden, denied, lost, and at risk of equal rights being taken away, depending on what political party is in power and what country you live in.

Joy and celebration is the protest because it is the opposite of oppression.

Visibility.
Belonging.
Community.
Pleasure.
Joy.
Love.

These are not random themes.

They are some of the very things that LGBTQIA+ people have historically been denied or shamed or excluded from or told that we should hide, which is why joy matters.

Not because it erases grief, but because when people are told they should be ashamed, silent, invisible, or denied equal rights, or to even be alive and open about their identity, celebration is more than celebration, it is reclamation.

Joy is not separate from the protest, it is the protest.

Happy Pride 🌈





TransRightsAreHumanRights

31/05/2026

⛔️ WHAT IF WE DON’T KNOW

One of the things I have noticed repeatedly in working primarily with survivors of s*xual trauma is that sometimes the difficulty is not simply saying no.

Sometimes people are no longer fully sure how to recognise, interpret, trust, or stay connected to what their body is actually communicating in the first place.

What is a yes?
What is a no?
What is a maybe?
What is people pleasing?
What is a fawn response?
What is genuine desire?
What is fear, obligation, guilt, shutdown, or conflict avoidance?

If through experience, relationships, trauma, family dynamics, or wider social conditioning, saying no has felt unsafe, ignored, punished, emotionally costly, or has led to disconnection, it can make sense that many people learn to override themselves.

And this often does not only appear in s*xual relationships.

It can show up in:
agreeing to plans when exhausted, taking on additional work when already overwhelmed, struggling to decline requests, saying yes automatically, hugging people out of obligation, tolerating touch you do not want, or finding yourself unable to tell the difference between discomfort and desire.

I think rebuilding trust with yourself and slowly learning the language of your body can become fundamental in recognising what genuinely feels like:
yes
no
maybe
not yet
I need more information
I need more time
I changed my mind

And then there is the separate process of learning how to communicate those things with other people whilst also navigating the emotions, fear, guilt, shame, or nervous system responses that can arise alongside it.

This is one of the reasons I value somatic work alongside talking therapy. Sometimes people do not only need intellectual insight. Sometimes they also need support reconnecting with the felt experience of themselves underneath adaptation, survival, fawning, and self-override.

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