Clarity Kent - Therapy & Coaching

15/08/2026

Imposter Syndrome – ‘taming’ the chimp on your shoulder

Why Do I Feel Like a Fraud at home or work? Or both. Understanding Imposter Syndrome

Imposter Syndrome – ‘taming the chimp’ on your shoulder (Or, in my case Captain Caveman! – who remembers him in the 80’s))

In midlife, our inner critic/inner caveman/imposter/cavey wavy/insert yours here * – name & character, can really ramp up and really shake our self-worth, self-esteem and inner strength, resilience & confidence.

Let me hazard a guess of how you might be feeling.

A fraud at work or in your personal life, worrying that others may ‘find you out’ and that you are not as capable as they think.

You might dismiss your achievements or find it difficult tricky to accept praise as you don’t believe success is your creation. This can leave you anxious, insecure and hesitant to take opportunities for fear that you will not be able to meet expectations.

Imposter syndrome often shows up during mid-life transitions, career changes or periods of increased responsibility - times when may feel your skills and decisions are under a ‘microscope’ or pressure.

With therapeutic coaching, we’ll identify the thought patterns, self-doubt and internal pressures that fuel imposter feelings. You’ll gain insight into where these beliefs came from and why they persist. Leave the questions & enquiry to me 😊.
We’ll use this awareness to develop practical strategies and tools to challenge self-limiting beliefs and to enable you to accept your achievements. You’ll feel more assured in your capabilities and confident in taking opportunities without fear or hesitation.

Here’s a link to a masterclass I did a few years back – same messages ring true today, I did for a local networking group for introverted entrepreneurs about taming the ‘chimp’ on your shoulder.
Enjoy!

https://youtu.be/p2BD4pG5rJs

If therapeutic coaching for Imposter syndrome has your name on it, you can find out more about what I do here: https://clarity-kent.co.uk/therapeutic-coaching/ and book a free intro call here: https://clarity-kent.co.uk/book-a-call/

02/08/2026

In midlife, self-love isn't selfish, it's essential.

Join me in reading this week’s blog: “Summer lovin’ – what’s self-love in midlife got to do with it (everything)” https://clarity-kent.co.uk/summer-lovin-whats-self-love-in-midlife-got-to-do-with-it-everything/ as we explore self-compassion, practical tips for self-kindness and how to truly show up for the person who matters most: YOU

Whether you're looking for everyday practices or ready to pause and reassess where you are in life, I'm can help.

I offer the Clarity MOT – a single session to help you gain clarity and leave with a practical, achievable action plan - whether you’re focusing on one issue or exploring a couple of related challenges in depth. Think of it as an MOT for the mind - a chance to pause, reflect and reset.

And relationship therapy that starts with the relationship you have with yourself, extending to the connections that matter most – family friends, siblings, partners, husbands & wives.

Relationship counselling and therapy gives you space to understand what’s really happening in your relationship while discovering ways to move forward with clarity. It can help you gain insight into the dynamics shaping your relationships, improve communication, and find healthier ways of relating to the people who matter most.

You are not on your own. Let's do this together.💕

Check out clarity-kent.co.uk for more about me & how I can help. To book a free intro zoom call:- https://clarity-kent.co.uk/contact/

26/07/2026

Introducing my latest blog – My confidence in midlife has exited stage left – 6 practical strategies to give your confidence a well-deserved boost ✨

Have you ever felt like your confidence just disappeared somewhere between your 20s and now - in your 40’s or 50’s? You're not imagining it — and you're definitely not alone.

This blog is for YOU navigating midlife and wondering where your self-confidence & self-esteem went. I’ll dig into why confidence and self-esteem tend to dip during this stage of our life, and share real, practical ways to rebuild it — no toxic positivity, just honest tools that work.

If you're ready to feel more like yourself again, come along for the ride. 💛

Have a read: https://clarity-kent.co.uk/my-confidence-in-midlife-has-exited-stage-left-6-practical-strategies-to-give-your-confidence-a-well-deserved-boost/

19/07/2026

Menopause doesn't just affect the person experiencing it—it can have a profound impact on relationships too.

Changes in mood, intimacy, communication, and identity can leave couples feeling disconnected, confused, or unsure of how to support one another. But midlife doesn't have to pull you apart—it can also be an opportunity to grow closer.

In my latest blog, I explore how couples can navigate this stage of life together, offering practical checkpoints and simple ways to stay connected, strengthen your relationship, and better understand each other's experience.

If you're finding this season of life challenging, couples therapy can provide a supportive space to reconnect, communicate more effectively, and move forward together.

Take a read:- https://clarity-kent.co.uk/navigating-midlife-together-checkpoints-practical-ways-to-stay-connected-in-your-relationship/ and if it resonates with you book a free intro zoom call here: https://clarity-kent.co.uk/book-a-call/ to chat couples therapy 💛

12/07/2026

Is anyone else feeling that familiar sense of overwhelm as the school holidays get closer? 💛

If you're juggling work, family life, endless to-do lists, and wondering how you'll hold it all together over the summer, you're not alone.

Midlife can bring its own unique pressures, and this time of year often adds even more to an already full plate.

I've written a new blog sharing practical, gentle ways to help you navigate the summer with more ease, self-compassion, and stability. Small shifts can make a big difference in helping you feel calmer, more grounded, and able to enjoy the moments that matter most.

I hope it offers a little reassurance—and a few helpful ideas—as you head into the holidays.

✨ Read my latest blog here: https://clarity-kent.co.uk/is-it-normal-to-feel-so-emotionally-overwhelmed-in-my-40sschool-holidays-on-the-horizon/

Therapeutic Coach supporting mid-life professionals overcome challenges with confidence self-esteem, stress, anxiety, burnout & imposter syndrome.
Helping women navigate menopause with EMBERS® Menopause-Informed Psychological Care. Couples' Therapy

08/07/2026

How do you reset in midlife?

Press pause and reset.
Feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or at a crossroads in life?
Sometimes what we need is the space to pause, reflect, gain clarity and reset.
And that’s exactly what I have done over the last 10 years – twice in fact, since I left corporate life in July 2016. From Graduate Manager to self-employed counsellor and now moving into therapeutic coaching. Two pitstops if you like to change career in midlife and secondly to honour and look after my health with the diagnosis of a chronic illness. As the saying goes ‘health is your wealth’.

So, tune into hear my story: - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xafEYOn9YJo&t=3s

I was recently on BBC Kent, Sussex & Surrey’s ‘Sunday Reset’ spot on Sunday 21st June.

For me resetting began quietly — with self-care, honesty, healing, and learning to protect my energy. ✨

So, if you need time to pause and reset, this is exactly what my Clarity MOT is designed for. Available as a 60 or 90-minute session, it's a chance to untangle your thoughts and emotions, explore what's really going on, and leave with a practical, personalised action plan.

Whether you're:
• facing an important decision
• working towards a goal
• navigating a work or life transition
• noticing a dip in confidence
• finding a relationship challenging
• or simply feeling stuck...

Think of it as an MOT for your mind—a chance to pause, reflect, reset, and move forward with greater confidence and clarity. We have to MOT our car, don’t we – so why not take good care of yourself?

Expect powerful breakthroughs, emotional healing, renewed confidence, deeper connection, and life-changing clarity.

Resetting with purpose.

To learn more, check out my Clarity MOT https://clarity-kent.co.uk/clarity-mot/ & you can watch my taster video too here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GMLBCUi9kPI&t=5s

If you are interested, book a Clarity intro call: https://calendly.com/clarity-kent/30-minutes-informal-intro-chat

04/07/2026

Have you noticed that your energy isn't what it used to be? 🙋‍♀️

Maybe you're feeling exhausted, overwhelmed, struggling to concentrate, or simply not quite like yourself?

If you're in your 40s, (or 50's) you might be wondering... Is this burnout? Is it perimenopause? Or could it be both?

The truth is, the signs can overlap, making it hard to know what's really going on.

In my latest blog, 'Why Am I feeling Burnout in My 40s?', I explore the physical symptoms of burnout, the emotional impact it can have, and why perimenopause can make everything feel even more intense.

Most importantly, I will be sharing practical, realistic tips to help you recognise the signs and start managing burnout with more self-compassion and confidence.

If this sounds familiar, I hope you'll give it a read with a cuppa ☕—you’ll find you're not alone after all. 💛

Check it out here: https://clarity-kent.co.uk/why-am-i-feeling-burnout-in-my-40s/

Interested in working with me, check out my Calendy link in my profile for a free 20 minutes intro zoom call.

24/06/2026

Feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or at a crossroads?

Looking for a mid life reset?

Sometimes what we need isn't months of support—it's the space to pause, reflect, and gain clarity.

That's exactly what my Clarity MOT is designed for.

Available as a 60 or 90-minute session, it's a chance to untangle your thoughts and emotions, explore what's really going on, and leave with a practical, personalised action plan.

Whether you're:
• facing an important decision
• working towards a goal
• navigating a work or life transition
• noticing a dip in confidence
• finding a relationship challenging
• or simply feeling stuck...

I'll draw on both my therapeutic insight and coaching approach to help you make sense of what's happening and map a way forward.

Think of it as an MOT for your mind—a chance to pause, reflect, reset, and move forward with greater confidence and clarity. You have to MOT your car, don’t you – so why not take care of yourself?

To learn more, check out: https://clarity-kent.co.uk/clarity-mot/ & you can watch my taster video too: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GMLBCUi9kPI&t=33s

If you are interested, book a Clarity intro call here: https://calendly.com/clarity-kent/30-minutes-informal-intro-chat

20/06/2026

Relationship Therapy & Couples Therapy 'spotlight' 🧐

I’ve been so excited to share a new chapter of my work at Clarity Kent – And I am offering one-to-one relationship therapy and couples therapy too.

Head over to my website to check out my 'taster' videos on my new recently launched website: https://clarity-kent.co.uk/relationship-therapy/

Whether you’re navigating challenges or seeking deeper connection in relationships with family, friends, partners or siblings or, just wanting to rediscover each other in your couple relationship, these spaces are here to help you foster understanding, healing, and growth.

Don’t miss out on one of my latest blog posts, where I dive into the power of working on relationships from a place of compassion and honesty to stay connected in midlife. The link is waiting for you here: https://clarity-kent.co.uk/navigating-midlife-together-practical-ways-couples-can-stay-connected/

Here’s to more connected, empowered relationships. ✨