03/08/2026
Every summer, parents are encouraged to prepare their child for Reception by practising numbers, letters and writing. These experiences can certainly be valuable, but educational psychology encourages us to look beyond what children know and consider whether they are developmentally ready to access learning.
Starting school involves much more than learning phonics and maths. Children are adapting to new routines, separating from familiar adults, building friendships, communicating their needs and managing big emotions. All of these experiences place demands on working memory, which has a limited capacity.
When a child is using a great deal of mental energy simply coping with the school day, there is naturally less capacity available for new learning. This is one reason why emotional development, communication, independence and self-regulation are such important foundations. They are not separate from learning. They help make learning possible.
Rather than asking, “Can my child count to 100?”, perhaps a more helpful question is:
“Does my child have the emotional, social and developmental foundations that will help them make the most of everything they are about to learn?”
What do you think is the most important skill a child can develop before starting school?