Whole Self Therapy With Michelle

Whole Self Therapy With Michelle Counselling (PROF.DIP. PYS.C.) Hypnotherapist. Holistic Massage Therapist. Sports Massesue. Counselling Directory

I love this. 🀍We spend so much of our lives wondering how other people see us β€” whether we were too much, not enough, to...
24/08/2026

I love this. 🀍
We spend so much of our lives wondering how other people see us β€” whether we were too much, not enough, too quiet, too emotional, too distant, too sensitive…
But everyone we meet experiences us through the lens of their own story, wounds, expectations and experiences.
One person may misunderstand a part of you that another person deeply appreciates.
Maybe the work isn't to keep changing ourselves to fit everybody else's version of who we should be.
Maybe it's learning to know ourselves deeply enough that we no longer need everyone else to understand us.
Be kind. Be accountable. Keep growing. But above all, be authentically you. 🌿

Where the sunlight meets stillness β˜€οΈA peaceful space to pause, breathe and allow your whole self to soften. Sometimes i...
16/08/2026

Where the sunlight meets stillness β˜€οΈ
A peaceful space to pause, breathe and allow your whole self to soften. Sometimes its simply about giving yourself permission to rest. 🀍

Yesterday has already been poured. Today is a fresh cup. 🍡In Reiki we are gently reminded to live in the present, releas...
06/08/2026

Yesterday has already been poured. Today is a fresh cup. 🍡
In Reiki we are gently reminded to live in the present, releasing what has passed and embracing this moment with peace.
Just for today... let today be enough.
Frans Stiene

05/08/2026

It’s time to take stock on how far you’ve come ✨

Cheers, Steph x

Your Brain Is Trying to Protect YouHave you ever noticed that when you're stressed, anxious or overwhelmed, it's harder ...
04/08/2026

Your Brain Is Trying to Protect You
Have you ever noticed that when you're stressed, anxious or overwhelmed, it's harder to think clearly?

That's because your brain is designed to keep you safe before anything else.

πŸ’­ Prefrontal Cortex – Your Thinking Brain
This helps you plan, make decisions, solve problems and regulate your emotions. When you're under stress, it can become less accessible, making it difficult to think clearly or see the bigger picture.

❀️ Amygdala – Your Alarm System
Your amygdala is constantly scanning for danger. If it senses a threat, it activates your fight, flight or freeze response. After trauma or prolonged stress, it can become overactive, leaving you feeling on edge even when you're safe.

🌿 Hypothalamus – Your Balance Keeper
This tiny part of the brain links your mind and body. It helps regulate your stress hormones, sleep, appetite, heart rate and body temperature. Ongoing stress can keep this system working overtime.

πŸ—‚οΈ Hippocampus – Your Memory Centre
The hippocampus helps organise memories and recognise the difference between the past and the present. High levels of stress can make this more difficult, which is why past experiences can sometimes feel as though they're happening all over again.

✨ The important thing to remember is this...
Your brain isn't broken.
It's adapting in the best way it knows how to keep you safe.
Counselling isn't about fixing you. It's about helping your nervous system feel safe enough for your thinking brain and emotional brain to work together again.

As safety grows, so can clarity, emotional regulation, confidence and choice.

🀍 Be curious with yourself, not critical. Your brain has been protecting you all along.
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I've been watching Stutz recently and one idea has really stayed with me – Life Force.It reminds us that when life feels...
02/08/2026

I've been watching Stutz recently and one idea has really stayed with me – Life Force.

It reminds us that when life feels overwhelming, we don't always need to search for the next answer. Sometimes we just need to come back to the basics.

Our Life Force is built from three things:
🀍 Our body – moving it, resting it, feeding it well and looking after our health.
🀍 Our relationships – spending time with people who make us feel safe, supported and connected.
🀍 Ourselves – being kinder to ourselves, living by our values, finding purpose and making space for the things that bring us alive.
I love this because it isn't about chasing happiness or waiting until we feel motivated. It's about doing the small things that keep us steady when life gets difficult.

As a counsellor, I often see people trying to change everything at once. More often than not, healing starts with one small step... a walk, a conversation, a good meal, five quiet minutes, or simply showing yourself a little compassion.
You don't have to fix your whole life today.
Just ask yourself...
"Which part of my Life Force needs a little more attention right now?" πŸ’š

02/08/2026

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I've always had a real appreciation for Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. It's simple, but incredibly powerful. It reminds us...
29/07/2026

I've always had a real appreciation for Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. It's simple, but incredibly powerful. It reminds us that before we can truly thrive, we first need to feel safe, connected and secure.

Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs is generally referred to as a theory of human motivation. Abraham Maslow developed it in 1943 to explain what motivates human behaviour.

In a world that often tells us to keep achieving, Maslow gently reminds us that there's no shame in going back to strengthen the foundations. If you're struggling, it doesn't mean you're failingβ€”it may simply mean one of your basic needs isn't being met right now.

As a counsellor, I often come back to this model. It helps us understand where we are, what might be missing, and why growth isn't always about pushing harder. Sometimes the bravest thing we can do is give ourselves permission to rest, ask for support, or create safety before expecting ourselves to flourish.
We all move up and down the pyramid throughout our lives, and that's completely human.
Growth isn't about racing to the top. It's about building a life where every level is cared for.
πŸ’› Every need matters. Every person matters. Every step forward counts.



Sometimes healing leaves a mark... but not always in the way you think. πŸ’™Today's treatment combined massage therapy with...
29/07/2026

Sometimes healing leaves a mark... but not always in the way you think. πŸ’™
Today's treatment combined massage therapy with TheraCup therapy to help release deep muscle tension and encourage the body to reset.
TheraCup uses a combination of: ✨ Negative pressure (cupping) ✨ Heat ✨ Red light therapy ✨ Vibration

Together these can help: 🀍 Release tight muscles and fascia 🀍 Improve circulation 🀍 Reduce pain and stiffness 🀍 Support lymphatic drainage 🀍 Increase mobility 🀍 Encourage deep relaxation

The circular marks aren't bruises – they're simply a temporary response as blood flow is encouraged into areas that may have been holding tension for some time. They usually fade within a few days.
Every treatment is tailored to the individual because no two bodies – or lives – carry stress in the same way.

Healing isn't always about pushing harder. Sometimes it's about allowing your body permission to let go. 🌿

Sometimes the greatest healing isn't about doing more. It's about allowing yourself to pause.We spend so much of life ca...
28/07/2026

Sometimes the greatest healing isn't about doing more. It's about allowing yourself to pause.
We spend so much of life caring for others, rushing from one responsibility to the next, often forgetting that our own nervous system needs time to settle too.
Our All-Love Sekhem Healing Evening isn't about having to believe in anything. It's simply an opportunity to slow down, breathe, reconnect with yourself and experience deep relaxation in a safe, supportive space.
Through guided meditation, breathwork and Sekhem energy healing, we'll create a gentle space to let go of whatever you've been carrying and leave feeling lighter, calmer and more grounded.
If your mind has been busy lately, perhaps this is your invitation to stop... just for a while.

✨ Thursday 27th August
πŸ•• 6pm–9pm
πŸ“ Earlswood, Solihull
πŸ’› Β£55 (Bring a friend for half price)
If you'd like to join us, simply message me for details.
Michelle x

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